Library Resources with Godfrey Spencer: (8)


Punishment, Needs and the Protective Use of Force

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  00:08 hours:minutes
Ask the Trainer: For many years I have been using crime and punishment (reward and consequences) to discipline because it was the only thing I knew. I knew deep in my heart it was alienating me...
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On Love and Empathy

Beginner Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  00:05 hours:minutes
Ask the Trainer: Is there any difference between the concept or experience of "love" and that of "empathy?"
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Judging Feelings

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  00:12 hours:minutes
Ask the Trainer: Is it a good idea to use NVC on persistent guilt, anger or depression without the aid of others?
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Connecting With Your Husband

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  00:07 hours:minutes
Ask the Trainer: My question is about wanting to empathize more with my husband. Sometimes we connect very deeply, other times he slips back into "jackal talk..."
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Use of Consequences to Change Behavior

Beginner Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  00:07 hours:minutes
Ask the Trainer: How do I respond to people who believe that consequences are necessary to change behavior?
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Meeting Needs While Caretaking

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  00:07 hours:minutes
Ask the Trainer: Can all needs be met when illness limits the capacity of one person to meet the needs of her partner?
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Connecting with Someone Who Has Cancer

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  00:06 hours:minutes
Ask the Trainer: I feel overwhelmed thinking of writing to someone with cancer. What can I do?
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Protective Use of Force with Children

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  00:09 hours:minutes
Ask the Trainer: Can you help me connect with my needs behind the protective use of force I use with my children?
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