What the World Needs
Article
4 - 6 minutes
11/2008
In this written transcript of a live presentation, Inbal Kashtan shares how she first became aware of poverty. She explains how empathy is a vital and powerful force for creating peace in our world today, and a powerful means of creating a world that works for all of us.
What am I Willing to Pay for My Freedom?
Audio
13 minutes
8/1/2021
Arnina Kashtan works with a course participant to explore the question, "What am I Willing to Pay for My Freedom?" Arnina leads her in a process of self-inquiry to identify some the factors that leave her bound to conditioned behaviors, offering a path to freedom.
Inspiring Organizations and Businesses to Consider NVC
Inspiring Organizations and Businesses to Consider NVC
Inspiring Organizations and Businesses to Consider NVC
Video
25 minutes
Circa 2006
In this brief but inspiring 3-part video series Gregg Kendrick, CNVC Certified Trainer and business leader, shares his experiences of embracing NVC within several organizations over several years.
Emerging: Practicing Awareness of Emergence
Trainer Tip
3 - 5 minutes
1/2020
This exercise explains four stages of the "Need Cycle": Fulfilled, Emerging, Urgent, Satisfying. It asks us to consider, connect and identify needs, feelings and where we are in the Need Cycle. Then it prompts us to remain mindful of the need for sustenance as we move through the cycle, noticing the subtle shifts in your physical sensations and emotions.
The Facilitator's Role
Video
50 minutes
03/16/2017
During this recording, Mary clarifies the facilitator’s role. She shares six tips that can help you set your intentions and achieve greater success as a NVC facilitator.
The Power of Being Heard
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
10/2005
Trainer Tip: To defuse anger and create space for resolution, hear the other person’s feelings and needs. If this practice is new to you, you're like to experience fear and resistance in trying it out. However, you'll be more likely to experience a powerful shift, and build your capacity, if you try it anyways.
Not Trusting the “Yes”
Audio
24 minutes
04/2008
In this audio recording, Miki demonstrates how to stay in a dialogue when you don't trust someone's "yes," how to equalize power between people and how to allow space for others to say "no" to our requests.
Navigating the Relationship Between Individuals and Political or Cultural Systems
Navigating the Relationship Between Individuals and Political or Cultural Systems
Navigating the Relationship Between Individuals and Political or Cultural Systems
Audio
1 hour, 1 minute
06/24/2013
Please listen as we discuss and grapple with the issues of growing polarization in our world, political structures and personal relationships.
Getting Conversations Back on Track
Article
4 - 6 minutes
03/2020
What can you do to move towards connection when you you sense reactivity, defense, withdrawal or conflict arising? You can make a connection request, check the congruence between your body language and your words, and get curious about the impact of your actions. When you've tried everything you could also acknowledge that something is off, and choose to come back together when both parties have had time to reflect. Read on for more.
Going Deep: Understanding Your Own and Others’ Deeper Motivations
Going Deep: Understanding Your Own and Others’ Deeper Motivations
Going Deep: Understanding Your Own and Others’ Deeper Motivations
Practice Exercise
n/a
09/2016
One of the premises in NVC is that behind all behavior and expressions are Universal Human Needs as the deeper motivators. And one of the key distinctions in NVC is that between Needs and Strategies. Try Alan's exercise called "Peeling the Layers of the Onion, " a process for uncovering these needs — the deeper motivations — that underlie words and behaviors we may find disturbing or puzzling.