A Process For Changing Habits
Article
5 - 7 minutes
9/24/2021
Let's take a look at life-serving possibilities for changing a habit: contemplation of the benefits and costs of the habit, changing the conditions in your life to support the new habit, and taking support away from the old habit. Read on for more.
Navigating Conflict And The Hero/Heroine’s Journey
Navigating Conflict And The Hero/Heroine’s Journey
Navigating Conflict And The Hero/Heroine’s Journey
Trainer Tip
3-5 minutes
1/29/2023
The hero/heroine’s journey is a narrative arc and universal archetype at the heart of humanity’s most popular stories. Here, we can connect with the immense power of meaning, purpose, and inspiration, moving us to feel profound emotion, accomplish, and persevere through seemingly impossible challenges. In our polarized world we can think about responding to conflicts from this mythic narrative of facing and transcending adversity.
Dissolving Reactivity With Your Partner
Article
3-5 minutes
2/2019
Most reactivity in intimate relationships comes from a lack of confidence in maintaining intimacy, autonomy, or security. What may help is naming what's happening, interrupting shame, and anchoring or reassuring yourself. You can also reflect on the effects of acting from reactivity. Knowing what helps center you, ask your partner to do or say specific things that might help. Read on for more.
Tips for the Road Series: Tip 3. Get Empathy before Making Important Decisions
Tips for the Road Series: Tip 3. Get Empathy before Making Important Decisions
Tips for the Road Series: Tip 3. Get Empathy before Making Important Decisions
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
01/2016
Eric explains how we can often avoid regret by getting empathy before making important decisions.
How to Handle Being Judged
Trainer Tip
2 - 3 minutes
Circa 2007
Ask the Trainer: "I am wondering what to do with a judgment that is expressed by someone about me. In these situations I can't find the unmet need they are expressing (other than perhaps significance)."
Embracing the Shadow (6 Session Course)
Audio
5 hours, 59 minutes
04/05/2016
In our internal conversations, some voices dominate others, which can leave us feeling fragmented or overwhelmed. But when we dive beneath the surface and really listen to our many parts, we connect vulnerably to our full humanity.
Conflict Improv: A Mother and Son Negotiation
Video
15 minutes
Circa 2008
In this role play, Jean Morrison plays a mother who is asking her son to vacuum the house and he is objecting. She enacts the role first using "jackal" language and then again using Nonviolent Communication.
Embracing Leadership within Yourself (4 Session Course)
Embracing Leadership within Yourself (4 Session Course)
Embracing Leadership within Yourself (4 Session Course)
Audio
4 - 6 hours
02/13/2015
Join Miki as she covers a lot of territory, defining leadership, helping us lead when we're not in the leadership chair, showing us how to have power in every moment and engage our fear instead of let it run us. Get some powerful leadership tools you can put to use today.
Modeling Behaviors You’d Like to Receive
Trainer Tip
1-2 minutes
06/24/2005
Trainer Tip: The ways that we interact with our children shape the way they will interact in their world. How do your actions model compassion, tolerance, and love for your children?
The 4-Part Nonviolent Communication Process
Learning Tool
N/A
1999
There are four components to the Nonviolent Communication (NVC) model, as developed by Marshall Rosenberg, PhD. The 4-Part NVC Process can guide you to express how you are, or they can be used to empathically receive how another is.