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Tips for the Road Series: Tip 6. Ask to Understand

Trainer Tip • 1 - 2 minutes • 01/2016
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
01/2016

Who does not want to be understood? In Tip #6, Eric shows you how to deepen connection and trust by checking your understanding with the person you are conversing with.


The Time and Money Course (6 Session Course)

Audio • 7 - 10 hours • 04/01/2015
Beginner Skill Level
Audio
7 - 10 hours
04/01/2015

Join Francois and Jeff to gain a clear understanding of the internal mechanics that cause you to experience a sense of scarcity around time and money. You'll develop a personal action plan that will help you translate internal shifts into more success with time and money in the outer world, and much more!


Conflict Improv: She Talks Too Much!

Video • 8 minutes • 2011
Intermediate Skill Level
Video
8 minutes
2011

In this edition of Conflict Improv, CNVC Certified Trainer Christine King navigates the challenging practice of expressing honesty when that expression might easily be heard as criticism.


Calling Out / Calling In

Article • 12 - 18 minutes • 03/2019
Advanced Skill Level
Article
12 - 18 minutes
03/2019

When someone's in immense pain and uses words that are hard to hear, see if you can bring in as much attention and compassion as you would to someone who was cut with a sword. Focusing on what's important to them, and not so much on how it was said. This may support greater understanding and healing. Otherwise, we risk prioritizing needs, norms, and inequities of the dominant culture, over caring for people who bear the invisible brunt of such norms.


Facilitate Change: Using NVC to Create Social Change

Audio • 51 minutes • 12/2008
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
51 minutes
12/2008

Listen to this newly remastered audio with seasoned Life Coach and CNVC Certified Trainers Martha Lasley and Dian Killian, to explore how you can "be the change" in your life, to live fully in integrity with your values in your work, community, faith and social action groups.

 


Living the Fullness of Life (9 Session Course)

Video • 14-18 hours • 01/2010
Intermediate Skill Level
Video
14-18 hours
01/2010

How do we live each and every day from the “living energy of needs” – with the unimpeded fullness of life’s energies flowing through us, regardless of the conflicts or life circumstances we may be experiencing? Through developing deep self-compassion. How can we experience our inner world from a place of utter and total compassion? When we practice compassionate self-care, we create an inner spaciousness that allows our life’s energies to flow. In that spaciousness both healing and inner transformation occurs. Robert’s work explores the interweaving of two co-intentions—to live life from the fullness of the “beauty of needs” and to approach every experience with deep compassion.


Self Responsibility

Article • 6 - 9 minutes • 12/2011
Beginner Skill Level
Article
6 - 9 minutes
12/2011

Being self-responsible is about empowerment — via noticing what is potentially in our locus of control, getting to know ourselves better, looking at our own role in how we experience life, and making conscious choices to act within our own power. This requires us to be mindful in relating our stories to our needs. Read on for more on this, and the various pifalls within thinking about self responsibility.


How To Distinguish True Caring From Being Charmed

Article • 4-6 minutes • 9/2/2021
Intermediate Skill Level
Article
4-6 minutes
9/2/2021

The attention you enjoy may not be motivated by true caring for you. There are three key questions that can help you discern whether you are receiving care or charm: How does caring show up under duress? How are differences treated? How consistent is the ability to consider the impact of their behavior on others? Be mindful of your judgments and notice any patterns.


Responding to Opportunity in Extreme Times

Article • 12 - 18 minutes • 04/2020
All Skill Levels
Article
12 - 18 minutes
04/2020

This pandemic is an immense opportunity, and a dire catastrophe in the making. It’s a crisis within many planetary crises — during which, our habits as individuals, and as a collective, are challenged because they don’t sustain us. Now we are pushed to respond freshly and join forces in ways that seemed impossible before.


Considering Everyone’s Needs Brings Peace

Trainer Tip • 1 - 2 minutes • 02/26/2022
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
02/26/2022

Trainer Tip: We feel our freedom when we are willing to look at others’ needs and our own, evaluate all of them and work toward valuing everyone’s needs. Take the time to demonstrate that you value everyone’s needs as much as your own today.


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