An Introduction to Self-Empathy and Focusing
Video
25 minutes
03/2010
Improving Relationships as a Primary Goal
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
01/04/2005
Trainer Tip: We can improve our relationships by focusing our attention first on connection instead of other stragegies.
Create a Flourishing Life with Gratitude
Audio
28 minutes
10/2011
Join CNVC Certified Trainer Jori Manske in an exploration of how gratitude can enable you to remain more present moment to moment, thus enabling you to flourish in your life!
Conflict Improv: Mom Won’t Stop Bugging Me
Video
22 minutes
Circa 2008
In this poignant video, Jean Morrison and Christine King enact a role play that is posed by a participant. Christine plays the mother who asks, "Are you dating anyone?"
Time And Money: Reflection Questions and Exercise
Practice Exercise
4 - 6 minutes
12/22/2021
Use these reflection questions and exercise to practice moving from a place of scarcity to empowerment and conscious choice regarding money and time. The exercise will ask you to identify your thoughts, feelings, and needs. And it will ask you to identify both what to mourn and what next actions you want to take. It includes a feelings and needs sheet.
Distinguishing Universal Needs from Strategies
Trainer Tip
10 - 15 minutes
10/15/2020
In this book excerpt, Kathleen and Jared offer a path to reach deeper clarity, distinguishing between universal needs and strategies.
Speaking the Unspoken Conversation (6 Session Course)
Speaking the Unspoken Conversation (6 Session Course)
Speaking the Unspoken Conversation (6 Session Course)
Audio
7 hours, 10 minutes
03/19/2014
Reveal, own and share the inner chatter that plays over and over in your head, in between the words you speak aloud. Arnina Kashtan will help you discover, embrace and open up the places inside that you’ve hidden and judged.
Groups Tip Series: Working with Frequent Interruptions
Groups Tip Series: Working with Frequent Interruptions
Groups Tip Series: Working with Frequent Interruptions
Trainer Tip
3 minutes
07/06/2014
How can I deal with someone who is constantly interrupting and derailing our process?
Increasing Your Capacity to Feel
Article
4 - 6 minutes
01/2018
What's really going on underneath the surface when we bring or encounter blame, judgements, pain -- and thereby the inability to empathize, be present, attuned, or responsive? Why does this happen even if one or more people in a relationship dynamic is working hard at bringing in an NVC response? This article addresses these and more questions from the perspective of how our brains are affected in our relationships.
Signs of Healthy Differentiation With Empathy
Article
4- 6 minutes
08/2020
If you ask for or give empathy and are met with accusations of codependency, there are a number of things you can do to check that you are coming from a place of healthy differentiation. You can see if you're doing so from a place of healthy differentiation -- and notice signs of healthy differentiation when you offer empathy. You can also bring a profound respect for differences, and clear boundaries. Read on for more.