How can we support inclusion rather than exclusion at NVC events, and why aren't more people of color attending? What subjects are being focused on? Who are they relevant for? Who do they touch? Whose subjects are not being talked about? Listen In.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 00:13 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 10/02/2018
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Trainer Tip: We all see through our own filters. To disentangle what we hear from some is really saying, check using understanding requests at the level of detail you need. Course correct along the way. In a charged situation this can be critical to bringing in clarity, being heard and resolving differences amicably.

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2005
  • Duration Read time: 1-2 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
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Trainer Tip: When we love a child there's a contribution we can provide in helping them go their own way successfully, in big ways and small.

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2005
  • Duration Read time: 1-2 minutes
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Trainer Tip: Where do you focus most of your life? Are there areas that you could reassess? Are you happy? Engage a new paradigm shift in your life.

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2005
  • Duration Read time: 1-2 minutes
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Want to learn how to live your life more fully than you ever dreamed? In this course you’ll learn how you can shake off old behaviors that no longer serve you, get inspired to embrace a daily happiness practice, and begin experiencing a brand new sense of personal joy and inner peace.

The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy:

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 5 - 6 hours
  • Production Date 11/10/2015
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Conversation can become more satisfying with depth. Depth is occurs when connection unfolds towards a depth of intimacy, presence, attunement, sensing -- and silent connection where another is attentively seen and heard. Inviting this level of sharing in conversation relies on at least three major elements: attentive silence, the desire to connect and be known, and focus on present moment experience. Learn more about this way of engaging.

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  • Date Written/Produced 6/2018
  • Duration Read time: 3 - 5 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 2
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How is trust best supported? Do you know what you do to contribute to making it easier or more difficult for others to express the truth (even in the most mundane moments)? Smaller requests can also built trust over time if they're rooted in the present moment, and are specific enough. Learn more about building trust...

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  • Date Written/Produced 8/2011
  • Duration Read time: 3 - 5 minutes
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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Points 4
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What's the real reason you choose to talk about something or not? "Privacy" can become a misplaced label that's used to hide harmful behaviour. Secrets typically come from reactivity -- and can carry shame, fear or threat of harm, and take a toll. And yet, if something private gets mislabeled as a "secret" it can also trigger shame and fear. The key to all this may be in relating to privacy from a place of clear differentiation, boundaries, agency, care and discernment.

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  • Date Written/Produced 9/2018
  • Duration Read time: 3 - 5 minutes
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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
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Telling yourself to be a certain way or have more of a certain quality (like courage), is a set-up for self-criticism and possibly freezing or avoiding. Instead, access effective action by asking yourself questions like: "If I could be or have that, what actions would be different inside or out?" "If I could be or have that, what needs would be met and knowing those are the needs, what could I do or ask for that would meet those needs?"

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  • Date Written/Produced 1/2019
  • Duration Read time: 2 - 4 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
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John introduces his Self Connection Exercise as a mindful way of coming to awareness via OFNR. Breath: immediately observable, a reminder to observe. Body: feeling the body, awareness of sensations. Needs: an experience of wholeness that expands awareness of the totality of experience. Listen.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 00:09 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 11/17/2019
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