Ever wish you knew how you might experience more choice when you've been triggered, instead of being trapped in old habits and unmet needs? Wish you could REALLY heal old internal messages that tell you you're not good enough… not loveable… or not deserving? Join veteran CNVC Certified Trainer, Mary Mackenzie, for this 6-session course designed to deepen your ability to connect with self and heal your past through the process of Self-empathy.

The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy:

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 5 - 7 hours
  • Production Date 10/17/2018
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  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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An anchor awakens parts of you that can access a bigger perspective. It calms and helps you engage presence for greater access to your skills. Also, it can reduce your reactivity, increase conscious relating, and support self-compassion. An anchor helps you get a little bit bigger than the reactivity you are experiencing so that you can access a wiser discernment. It is simple, and can be done anytime and anywhere. Learn more about how to develop your anchor in self-empathy.

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  • Date Written/Produced 4/2019
  • Duration Read time: 5 - 8 minutes
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Mediating a conflict conversation can be challenging – but with tools and practice, that challenge can be transformed. If you're curious about the specific steps needed to achieve that transformation, join John for an exploration of his non-dual mindfulness practice.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 00:44 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 11/17/2018
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  • Points 3
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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When Anita's sister reveals that the Ku Klux Klan broke into her home and dragged her out into a field towards a burning cross, Anita's commitment to nonviolence is challenged. Here, Miki highlights practices and lessons from her story of inner struggle -- including an insight about how, even in extreme polarization, our freedom and healing is wrapped up in others' freedom and healing.

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  • Date Written/Produced 11/2017
  • Duration Read time: 14 - 21 minutes
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Points 12
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Old emotional hurts and pains can easily erupt when you’re in the throes of conflict – even if you’re the mediator. Wouldn’t it be lovely if you could avoid all of that, and instead create more peace and happiness for yourself, your family, your co-workers and your community?

The introductory session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy:

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 7 - 9 hours
  • Production Date 01/20/2015
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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When we have an inner conflict, how can we bring ourselves closer where we want to be? Miki explains about how we can deepen our self understanding in a way that can transform our own reactivity, urges, and false either/or views -- so that we can bring in more presence, choice, and options.

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2015
  • Duration Read time: 13 - 19 minutes
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Points 12
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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When we're on the receiving end of pain-stimulating assumptions, a microaggression, or prejudice --when we're reactive and resultingly have self doubt, guilt or shame in ourselves-- is it possible to be intensely authentic while holding care for everyone in the situation? Can we effectively do this even as a third party witnesses to these things?

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  • Date Written/Produced 04/2019
  • Duration Read time: 9 - 13 minutes
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Points 6
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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This two page learning tool contains lists of needs, feelings, faux feelings, and feelings that might be mixed with thoughts...

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  • Date Written/Produced 04/2019
  • Duration Read time: 3 - 5 minutes
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

To keep our life energy moving and growing we can find the resources to welcome and accompany various parts of ourselves with compassion and love -- as though these parts are very young children.  And even if these parts contain difficult emotions...

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  • Date Written/Produced 04/2019
  • Duration Read time: 2 - 3 minutes
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Skill Level Beginner
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Trainer Tips
How do you know when you’re projecting disowned parts or replaying old relationship dynamics? It’s hard to know for sure, but if you find yourself upset or shutting down and unable to have a dialogue in which you can speak clearly about your feelings and needs and empathize with the other’s feelings and needs, there is likely a projection. The stronger your reaction, the more likely you are projecting.

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  • Date Written/Produced 01/2016
  • Duration 1 page
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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