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Learn to speak NVC using your own voice and increase ease and flow in all your personal and professional conversations. This 7-session telecourse recording with renowned trainer Miki Kashtan is designed to help you integrate NVC into all aspects of your life by gaining fluency in your practice of NVC and by embodying the principles regardless of the words you use. This course is based on intensive practice and coaching with real-life examples from participants’ lives.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 8 - 10 hours
  • Date Added 11/15/2022
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  • Payee BayNVC
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Here we explore variants of conflict patterns in part two (of this two part series) that include: refuting "straw man arguments"; not checking understanding, repeating unhelpful behaviour; repeatedly asking for what's already given; asserting rather than demonstrating responsiveness; assumptions; denying conflict exists; neglecting interdependence; stonewalling; absence of curiosity, humility, respect, empathy or care (even when reflecting).

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 8 - 12 minutes
  • Date Added 11/10/2022
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  • Payee Bob Wentworth
  • Points 5
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To resolve conflict, information of what's important to each party, plus corrections, needs to be included and built upon. Here we explore nine patterns of ongoing conflict, including diagnosis; assuming understanding; refuting; unhelpful communication mediums; over focus on intent over effect; and “hit-and-run” engagement. This is part one of a two part series.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 6 -9 mins
  • Date Added 11/10/2022
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  • Payee Bob Wentworth
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Codependency occurs when others' behavior affects us in unhealthy ways and we get obsessed with controlling their behavior. For example, we may focus on other's needs while neglect what matters to us, and resent it. Or we may depend on others to rescue us from results of our actions. Or we may fix or rescue others' neglected responsibilities. Or we may make others responsible for our needs. Instead, notice your needs, what you can('t) change, and your priorities.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 5 - 7 minutes
  • Date Added 11/7/2022
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  • Payee Eddie Zacapa
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Trainer Tip: You may find yourself assessing the relationship with someone just based on how they feel. Check in with yourself: How do you feel and what needs of yours are met when you spend time with someone? Consider whether this relationship is working for you. If it isn’t, be specific about which of your needs are unmet. Notice if you can do anything to help meet them.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Date Added 11/07/2022
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
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Trainer Tip: When you make a request of someone, you don't diminish your relationship; you enhance it. If you receive a "no" to your request, consider brainstorming a different strategy that would meet your needs. It isn’t a sign of weakness to clarify what you would like. It helps you commit to living a full and joyful life. Look for opportunities to clarify your requests.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Date Added 9/23/2022
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
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Trainer Tip: We all have different ways to meet our need for rest. It's important to notice when you need that time. You might know you need rest when you find yourself snapping at people on the phone, when you snap at your cat, or when you ignore your partner. Rather than behave in ways that you might regret, consider doing something that will help you meet your need for rest. Everyone in your life will benefit.

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  • Skill Level Introductory Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Date Added 9/23/2022
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
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Trainer Tip: Make a clear, conscious decision about what’s important to you, and then live from that place. This can support you to become less attached to being likeable or accepted, And less affected in a way you don't want, by others opinions of you and your choices. This can further support you to live in integrity.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Date Added 9/23/2022
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 1
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Trainer Tip: When faced with doing a task that doesn't seem fun try saying to yourself something to the effect of “I do this activity because I value...”. Complete the sentence with related needs, then ask yourself if you still want to complete the task. This can take the demand out of the tasks. Next, choose accordingly. This can teach you about, or give you more access to, true choice in life.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Date Added 9/22/2022
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
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One way of simplifying decision-making in relationships is clarity about the level of contact and connection you want with the people you interact with. This means knowing what you want and don’t want to share, the kinds of activities you do and don’t do together, how often, etc. This can help you chose how to best support your needs in that context, and help you to remember to set life-serving boundaries when you need them.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 4 - 6 minutes
  • Date Added 9/22/2022
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  • Payee LaShelle Lowe-Charde
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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