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In uncertain times, when facing important life decisions, it's common to get caught up in imagining various scenarios and potential outcomes. The desire to predict and control the future often gives a false sense of security. The key is to make decisions based on the information available now, minimizing the number of irreversible choices.


This approach maintains focus on what is known and prevents getting lost in the unknown. Rigor is essential, especially when familiar pathways don't align with desired values. In times of high stakes and uncertainty, such as dealing with a health crisis, the challenge is to resist the urge to speculate on countless possibilities and instead concentrate on the facts at hand. Miki Kashtan shares how staying in the present and acting on what is currently known provided a practical and grounded approach which allowed her to stay present throughout her sister's, Inbal Kashtan, journey with cancer.


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  • Skill Level Introductory Level
  • Duration 5 minutes
  • Production Date 12/26/2023
Amidst the Israel/Palestine war we see polarizing media portrayals and the battle for public opinion. Read how one person shares his deep, personal connections to the Israel/Palestine conflict, expresses the trauma and viewpoints of both Palestinian and Israeli experiences -- in a way that aims to transcend polarizations, hold compassion, and understand the complexity on both sides. Despite the immense challenge that defies easy resolution, he holds hope, noting historical reconciliations such as the ones between Germans and Jews.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Level
  • Duration 14-18 minutes
  • Date Added 3/16/2024
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Payee Yoram Mosenzon
  • Points 6
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Have you ever found yourself passing judgment on a co-worker's seemingly disorganized desk? Mary Mackenzie's experience sheds light on the fact that she and her colleague with the "messy desk" shared a common need for order. Recognizing that our needs align can lead to a softening of judgments, creating space for connection, understanding, and harmony.

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  • Duration 0.5 minute
  • Date Added 1/13/2024
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Amidst the Israel/Palestine war we see polarizing media portrayals and the battle for public opinion. Read how one person shares his deep, personal connections to the Israel/Palestine conflict, expresses the trauma and viewpoints of both Palestinian and Israeli experiences -- in a way that aims to transcend polarizations, hold compassion, and understand the complexity on both sides. Despite the immense challenge that defies easy resolution, he holds hope, noting historical reconciliations such as the ones between Germans and Jews.

Additional Info

  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 14 - 18 minutes
  • Production Date 11/30/23

Duke Duchscherer shares that Restorative Circles have the ability to transform relationships. Groups may start with feelings of worry, anxiety, fear, anger, and even hatred. The dialogue process supports a shift to more ease, connection, and trust.

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  • Duration 1 minute
  • Date Added 12/18/2023
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Payee Duke Duchscherer
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
How do you solve a conflict? By not trying to solve it! Yoram suggests building your conflict resolution muscles by practicing connecting to the needs behind the conflict instead. Check out this excerpt from Session 1 of his 2021 course, Connecting in Conflict and the Art of Navigating Dialogue. Listen.

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  • Duration 4 minutes
  • Date Added 12/13/2023
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Payee Yoram Mosenzon
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
So many of us have been taught to solve conflicts by what is “fair.” However, Miki Kashtan states that fairness is a separating concept. In this video, she describes how when we do not have the conditions to care for all needs involved, when we live within separation, fairness is second best. 

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  • Duration 5 minutes
  • Date Added 3/23/2024
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Payee NGL
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
In a workshop, a hesitant white neurodivergent man faced a triggering reaction from a Global Majority transgender man. Uncovering their backgrounds, the facilitator addressed family dynamics and exclusion. A repair exercise fostered empathy, challenging assumptions and emphasizing the importance of equitable facilitation for a richer group experience.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 5 - 7 minutes
  • Date Added 3/1/2024
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Payee Roxy Manning
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
When a person of color (A.K.A. a person from the Global Majority, or GM) tells a marginalization story that triggers a defensive response from a white participant in a group, to foster awareness and healing, leaders can address the white person's distress with empathy, highlighting the common dynamic of prioritizing white pain. From there, leaders can offer GM participants opportunity to share their experience and make requests of the group.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 4 - 5 minutes
  • Date Added 2/11/2024
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Payee Roxy Manning
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Resonant language is language that takes us out of the static brain space and into the brain’s fluid space. In this video, Sarah describes the basics of resonant language and how, when you start to move into the fluid space of the right brain hemisphere, everything starts to change.

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  • Duration 5 minutes
  • Date Added 11/23/2023
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Payee Sarah Peyton
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1