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Trainer Tip: What is motivating your (in)actions? Are you doing something in the name of supporting deeper heartfelt needs, free of judgement or blame? Or are you bringing in consequences based on viewing the other person as having "bad behaviour"?

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Date Added 10/2005
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Trainer Tip: When someone is unresponsive it can be an opportunity to bring in more presence and connection through empathy. They may be worried that if they speak they'll say something they'll regret. Or they may want to know that their needs matters as much as yours. They may also need more space to clarify their thoughts.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Date Added 10/2005
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Trainer Tip: The very process of giving someone space to talk about their issue without our judgment, to be truly understood by us, and to be deeply heard is very healing, enough so that most people will organically find their own creative ways to resolve their issues. Rely on this process and you will lose all desire to fix people’s problems. Try this out today.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Date Added 10/2005
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Trainer Tip: It's impossible to value other people’s needs and remain compassionate if we simultaneously harbor judgments. If we're willing to shift this behavior we can translate our judgments into acknowledging how something affects us. Once I got into the habit of this, my judgments began to subside dramatically. It became easy to love people and feel compassion for them, and I experienced a freedom I had never known before.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Date Added 10/2005
  • Premium Members

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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Trainer Tip: We all see through our own filters. To disentangle what we hear from some is really saying, check using understanding requests at the level of detail you need. Course correct along the way. In a charged situation this can be critical to bringing in clarity, being heard and resolving differences amicably.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Date Added 10/2005
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Trainer Tip: When we love a child there's a contribution we can provide in helping them go their own way successfully, in big ways and small.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Date Added 10/2005
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Trainer Tip: Where do you focus most of your life? Are there areas that you could reassess? Are you happy? Engage a new paradigm shift in your life.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Date Added 10/2005
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

For this practice assume that reactivity is arising any time you are distracted and not enjoying something. Practice throughout the day by focusing your attention for a few moments on something specific that you find pleasing. Notice the sensation of joy or pleasure in your body, and hold attention there longer than usual. This interrupts tension and contraction. Keep remembering to do this. When you go too long without directing your attention in this way, the practice becomes less accessible.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 3 - 5 minutes
  • Date Added 3/2019
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  • Payee LaShelle Lowe-Charde
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Old emotional hurts and pains can easily erupt when you’re in the throes of conflict – even if you’re the mediator. Wouldn’t it be lovely if you could avoid all of that, and instead create more peace and happiness for yourself, your family, your co-workers and your community?

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 7 - 9 hours
  • Date Added 01/20/2015
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  • Payee Mediate Your Life
  • Points 0
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

There are various ways to be known. Learn how to engage and make clear requests accordingly. This includes getting clear in yourself about what exactly you want known; communicating how important it is to you; sharing examples in your life of being known; requesting and negotiating from the energy of the met need; letting the other person know whether or not the relationship is really sustainable for you if the need goes unmet long-term; and checking the other person's capacity.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 7 - 12 minutes
  • Date Added 3/2019
  • Premium Members

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  • Payee LaShelle Lowe-Charde
  • Points 3
  • Multi Trainer Num 1