Library Resources with Miki Kashtan

What is a good baby? If you have been raised in a Western culture, chances are you know the answer right away (whether or not you agree with it). A good baby is one that doesn't cry! The training against vulnerability starts very early in life.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 3 pages
  • Production Date Circa 2005
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In June, 1996, I had an epiphany. In a motel room in Indiana, the night before returning home from a solo camping trip in Michigan and Canada, I discovered how much I had lost in my life because of so fiercely protecting myself. Up until that day, bringing forth my vulnerable self was to be avoided at all costs, which kept me numb much of the time, disconnected from myself and from much of life. Alone in my room, I cried, I talked out loud, and I finally exclaimed to myself that I wanted to reclaim every last bit of my vulnerability, just like I had it as a child.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 3 pages
  • Production Date 02/03/2012
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Ask the Trainer: "Can you share stories of transforming group conflict, or is NVC strictly intended for 'one-on-one' work?"

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 3 pages
  • Production Date 2007
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Published in Trainer Tips
Ask the Trainer: “I would love some clarity about the NVC perspective on the cause of our feelings. It seems to me that my needs may be met or not, but the cause of my painful feelings is my story around the situation.”

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Ask the Trainer: "I've been feeling frustrated and angry quite a bit lately over very simple things. Can you help me get to the root of my hidden needs?"

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 2 pages
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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  • Points 1
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Ask the Trainer: "Could you share a list of types of requests, with examples of each and a possible strategy for formulating requests in conversation?"

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 2 pages
  • Production Date 2008
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Published in Trainer Tips
Ask the Trainer: "A participant in our beginners' NVC practice group asked the co-facilitators if there was a confidentiality agreement that was typically used in NVC practice groups?"

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  • Skill Level Advanced Skill Level
  • Duration 4 pages
  • Production Date 2007
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Ask the Trainer: "I'm practicing with 'transforming the pain of unmet needs into the beauty of the need.' In identifying my unmet needs, I come up with 'fairness.' However, fairness isn't on the needs list! I'm wondering what needs might be underneath 'fairness.'"

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  • Skill Level Advanced Skill Level
  • Duration 2 pages
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Ask the Trainer: "I just started teaching in a public school and I'm not enjoying the violence that teachers express towards children and their colleagues. However, when I talk about NVC, most people listen but I feel they're either not understanding it or ..."

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  • Skill Level Advanced Skill Level
  • Duration 3 pages
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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  • Points 1
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Published in Trainer Tips
Ask the Trainer: "I have the understanding that the unconscious is vast compared to conscious mind. When I state 'needs' how well can I depend on there being something beneath my awareness that is actually the motivation?"

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  • Skill Level Advanced Skill Level
  • Duration 2 pages
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Trainer Tips
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