NVC resources that include teachings about argument: (22)


Does Anyone Deserve Anything?

Beginner Skill Level  •  Article  •  Read time: 13 - 20 minutes
Our world trains us to think in terms of providing for everyone’s needs because they deserve it, earned it, or they possess the resources -- it's fair, socially just, supports equality or because people have rights. Instead, can we step outside this worldview to look at providing for everyone’s needs because those needs exist -- can we hold this basic reverence for life? Are we able to have a needs-based dialogue when such a reframe could alienate those who live in the worldview of earn/deserve?
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Bridging the Gap: Practical Support for Parents of Grown Sons and Daughters (Complete Course)

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Audio  •  4 - 6 hours

Learn tools to help you reconnect and repair your relationship with your adult children. Whether the issues are estrangement, lack of trust, conflict, dependence, miscommunication or any other challenge that impacts you with your grown sons and daughters, your heart will find comfort and ease through this course.

The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy:

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Connected Decision Making

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Article  •  Read time: 2-3 minutes
If you're stuck when making a decision with someone, it's likely that you've skipped hearing and connecting to one another's needs. Slow down and listen for what's really important underneath the content. This allows you to make decisions that are more fulfilling and harmonious.
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Getting Stuck Arguments Unstuck

Beginner Skill Level  •  Article  •  Read time: 3-5 minutes
Some arguments stay stuck because each person thinks it's about the content of the argument, rather than the needs each person is attempting to protect. When the needs get attached to the strategies a "no way out" scenario gets created. Instead, fully step into one another's worlds and connect to the feelings and needs behind the strategy each party is putting forth. Read on for six elements to creating empathic connection.
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Making Sure We Are Heard

Beginner Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  Read time: 1-2 minutes
Trainer Tip: We all see through our own filters. To disentangle what we hear from some is really saying, check using understanding requests at the level of detail you need. Course correct along the way. In a charged situation this can be critical to bringing in clarity, being heard and resolving differences amicably.
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Anatomy of a Trigger: Change Your Focus and Improve the Outcome

Beginner Skill Level  •  Article  •  Read time: 7-10 minutes
When you or anyone is upset, what could underneath it all?  There may be more than is immediately visible.  This article invites us to explore what it looks like to inquire deeper, take self-responsibility, examine our assumptions, attachments, interpretations, and "certainties" that could be hidden behind the needs that are aching to be attended to...
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NVC Mediation Level 1 Training: Mediating Conflict for Yourself and Others (Complete Course)

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Audio  •  11 - 14 hours

This telecourse recording provides an experience with the language, skills and consciousness of NVC applied to mediating all types of conflict whether you are one of the people in conflict or you are supporting others in conflict.

The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy:

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Giraffe Fighting: Having Your Cake and Eating It Too (complete course)

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Audio  •  02:35 hours:minutes
Do you find yourself giving in with growing resentment? Do you avoid conflict and explode later without apparent reason?  Miki Kashtan, a world-renowned CNVC Certified Trainer, invites you to listen to this two-session telecourse recording to re-imagine and fine tune your skills at dealing with disagreements and negotiations.
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Change Your Response to Conflict — Change Your Life (Complete Course)

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Audio  •  05:12 hours:minutes
Listen to this introductory 4-session Mediate Your Life telecourse recording to change your response to conflict and change your life.
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Naturalizing NVC Language Series: Don’t Use That Psych 101 with Me!

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Audio  •  00:05 hours:minutes
CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan helps a man whose ex-spouse reacted strongly to his attempt at empathizing with her. Miki shows us how it’s possible to hide behind our empathic expression, creating less rather than more connection. She suggests instead that we be vulnerably authentic.
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