NVC Library

Trainer Tips (21)

Expressing Ourselves Honestly

Introductory Skill Level • Trainer Tip • Read time: 1-2 minutes
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Trainer Tip: Be aware of opportunities to be honest holding the intention to connect with people. If you do this with the elements of brevity, directness, and respect, you can increase your chances of being heard. If they don't like your honesty, consider switching to…

Mourning and Celebration: Two Sides of Gratitude

Introductory Skill Level • Trainer Tip • Read Time: 1 - 2 minutes
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Mourning, grief and celebration is a way to connect with what we love and want to honor.  In this trainer tip we learn that these three things can become a way for us to understand our emotions regarding our losses and appreciations.

Enemy Images

Introductory Skill Level • Trainer Tip • Read time: 1-2 minutes
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Read time: 1-2 minutes
Trainer tip: Judging others can affect our ability to communicate effectively with that person, or enjoy the relationship. Translating the static judgments (enemy images) we have of others into our own and others' feelings and needs can help us move into greater understanding, healing, and…

The Jackal as a Teacher

Introductory Skill Level • Trainer Tip • Read time: 1-2 minutes
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Trainer tip: Why do NVC practitioners sometimes use the jackal as a metaphor in the NVC world? What can it teach us? Read on for more.

Observing without Judgment

Introductory Skill Level • Trainer Tip • Read time: 1-2 minutes
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Trainer Tip: Today, identify the facts, without adding your ideas about why people behave in certain ways. Then consider connecting with the person about what was going on with them. You will find that the more you observe life without judgment and evaluation, the more…

Losing Our Judgments

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Trainer tip: Various life circumstances that can seem to be something that we don't want, and we may think of them as bad. And then later the situation may reveal that it's a circumstance that we do want, and we may think of it as…

Creating Your Experience

Introductory Skill Level • Trainer Tip • Read time: 1-2 minutes
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Trainer Tip: Only after we connect to our unmet need can we make sound decisions that will transform our experience. For example, if you feel bored, connect to your unmet needs (eg. need for understanding the relevance, etc) and then look for strategies that will…

Empathy, a Potent Healer

Introductory Skill Level • Trainer Tip • Read time: 1-2 minutes
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Trainer tip: Empathy, hearing feelings and needs behind someone’s words, can be incredibly healing -- and it can help us come to better understanding and resolution. Empathize with at least on person today. Read on for an example of applied empathy.

Giraffe Consciousness

Introductory Skill Level • Trainer Tip • Read time: 1-2 minutes
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Trainer tip: Why do NVC practitioners sometimes use the giraffe as a metaphor for NVC consciousness? What can it help us understand about NVC consciousness? Read on for more.

Liberating Ourselves from Our “Shoulds”

Introductory Skill Level • Trainer Tip • Read time: 1-2 minutes
Introductory Skill Level
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Read time: 1-2 minutes
Trainer tip: When you tell yourself that you have to do something, you're more likely to disconnect yourself from the needs you’re trying to meet, and also diminish the joy in your life. Instead, experiment with translating your “shoulds” and “have tos” into the need…

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