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Trainer Tips (131)

Understanding I’m Not Responsible for Another's Feelings

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Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 2 pages
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Ask the Trainer: "I understand that I'm not responsible for someone else's feelings, but my girlfriend doesn't. Do you have ideas for how I could get her to understand this concept?"

An NVC “Do-Over”

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Trainer Tip: When we respond in a way that is less than our ideal in terms of using NVC, we don't have to give up and think we are no good at NVC or that NVC doesn't work!

Modeling Behaviors You’d Like to Receive

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Trainer Tip: The ways that we interact with our children shape the way they will interact in their world. How do your actions model compassion, tolerance, and love for your children?

Connect Before Correct

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 2 pages
Beginner Skill Level
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Ask the Trainer: "Recently, I was sitting in my weekly practice group trying to connect to my reasons for wanting to give empathy to a particular person. She was telling us about some painful feeling she was having, but was not connecting to her needs."

The Cause of Our Feelings

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 3 pages
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Trainer Tip
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Ask the Trainer: “I would love some clarity about the NVC perspective on the cause of our feelings. It seems to me that my needs may be met or not, but the cause of my painful feelings is my story around the situation.”

Every Angry Message is a "Please"

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Trainer Tip: Anger can be an opportunity to hear the "Please" behind the words and create a path to resolve conflicts compassionately.

Is NVC Always, in the End, “Just One-on-One”?

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 3 pages
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
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Ask the Trainer: "Can you share stories of transforming group conflict, or is NVC strictly intended for 'one-on-one' work?"

Finding Our True Self

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Trainer Tip: Accepting our true feelings, needs and values can lead us to a more compassionate life. Are you being true to yourself?

The Book of Love: Bringing You Closer to Your Lover

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 1 page
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Trainer Tip: Could you tell me something I do that meets your need for love?

The Sweetest Game in Town: Contributing Without Praise

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 2 pages
Beginner Skill Level
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Inbal answers a parent's question about praise and offers a perspective on how praise translates into the NVC framework.

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