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Trainer Tips (130)

The Difference Between Needs and Requests

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 1 page
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Trainer Tip: Knowing the difference between what we need and what we want someone else to do about that need can have a profound impact on our relationships and our happiness.

On Love and Empathy

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 00:05 hours:minutes
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Ask the Trainer: Is there any difference between the concept or experience of "love" and that of "empathy?"

Connecting to Self

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Trainer Tip: Q: How do we get the love we want? A: Ask for it.

Being Honest About Our Anger

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Trainer Tip: Mary shares how staying present to our anger and finding the underlying feelings and needs can lead to deeper connection and more satisfying outcomes.

Avoiding “Right Fights”

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Trainer Tip: Ready to start a fight because you're right? Consider another strategy.

Use of Consequences to Change Behavior

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 00:07 hours:minutes
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Ask the Trainer: How do I respond to people who believe that consequences are necessary to change behavior?

Don’t Make Assumptions!

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Trainer Tip: Do you ever feel certain that other people see things the way you do, only to find out they don’t? Read on.

Love as a Need

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Trainer Tip: In NVC we consider love to be a need. We all need love, but the ways in which we express it can be very different.

Protective Use of Force

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Trainer Tip: Mary explains the NVC principle known as the "protective use of force."

Tips for the Road Series: Tip 7. Talk about Conflict When You’re Not in Conflict

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 4 pages
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Conflict is a normal and natural part of life. To varying degrees, it happens whenever two or more people consistently spend time together. Resolving conflict effectively and peacefully, in a way in which all parties feel respected and valued, does not feel natural for those…

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