Trainer Tip: It's impossible to value other people’s needs and remain compassionate if we simultaneously harbor judgments. If we're willing to shift this behavior we can translate our judgments into acknowledging how something affects us. Once I got into the habit of this, my judgments began to subside dramatically. It became easy to love people and feel compassion for them, and I experienced a freedom I had never known before.

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2005
  • Duration Read time: 1-2 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Trainer Tip: We all see through our own filters. To disentangle what we hear from some is really saying, check using understanding requests at the level of detail you need. Course correct along the way. In a charged situation this can be critical to bringing in clarity, being heard and resolving differences amicably.

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2005
  • Duration Read time: 1-2 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Trainer Tip: Where do you focus most of your life? Are there areas that you could reassess? Are you happy? Engage a new paradigm shift in your life.

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2005
  • Duration Read time: 1-2 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Trainer Tip: When we love a child there's a contribution we can provide in helping them go their own way successfully, in big ways and small.

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2005
  • Duration Read time: 1-2 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Listen to Mary tackle one of the greatest challenges of facilitating an NVC group: How do you deal with hecklers and people you don't like? Mary offers insightful and helpful guidance.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 01:03 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 06/02/2018
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  • Points 3
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Listen in as Mary offers suggestions for leading practice groups: 1) how to build trust in a group setting; 2) clues that demonstrate a group’s lack of trust; and 3) signs that indicate a participants' need for trust isn't being met.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 00:05 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 02/2018
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How can we live up to our true potential, a life filled with relationships and experiences that truly meet our needs? In this article, Mary offers us a way to bring about inner transformation that can lead to seeing ourselves, others and life differently -- for greater agency, empowerment and choice.

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  • Date Written/Produced 01/2010
  • Duration Read time: 5-8 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 6
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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When you or anyone is upset, what could underneath it all?  There may be more than is immediately visible.  This article invites us to explore what it looks like to inquire deeper, take self-responsibility, examine our assumptions, attachments, interpretations, and "certainties" that could be hidden behind the needs that are aching to be attended to...

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2017
  • Duration Read time: 7-10 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 6
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Listen to this 20-minute meditation on presence to help you decrease stress and create authentic connection and peace during the coming holiday season.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 00:30 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 06/2010
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This session is from the NVC Academy's 2017 Telethon. Listen in as Mary offers two experiential self-empathy exercises: I Love It When, and What Do I Want / Why Do I Want It. Deepen your ability to connect with self — novel and effective ways to engage the process of Self-Empathy!

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 00:44 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 11/18/2018
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  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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