NVC resources that include teachings about connection: (305)


Moving From Blame to Self-Responsibility

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Article  •  2 pages
Often when someone else does something we don't like, it's easy to blame the other person. After all, we have all been trained to focus on fault when needs are not met. What can we do to shift that pattern?
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The Price of Nice

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Article  •  8 pages
Have you been nice? Well then you must be enjoying the reward: depression, intermittent explosiveness, job meaninglessness, ambiguous anxiety, low resentment and subtle self hate.
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Is NVC Always, in the End, “Just One-on-One”?

Beginner Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  3 pages
Ask the Trainer: "Can you share stories of transforming group conflict, or is NVC strictly intended for 'one-on-one' work?"
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An NVC “Do-Over”

Beginner Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  1 page
Trainer Tip: When we respond in a way that is less than our ideal in terms of using NVC, we don't have to give up and think we are no good at NVC or that NVC doesn't work!
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The Cause of Our Feelings

Beginner Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  3 pages
Ask the Trainer: “I would love some clarity about the NVC perspective on the cause of our feelings. It seems to me that my needs may be met or not, but the cause of my painful feelings is my story around the situation.”
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Understanding I’m Not Responsible for Another's Feelings

with Jeff Brown
Beginner Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  2 pages
Ask the Trainer: "I understand that I'm not responsible for someone else's feelings, but my girlfriend doesn't. Do you have ideas for how I could get her to understand this concept?"
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Use of Consequences to Change Behavior

Beginner Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  00:07 hours:minutes
Ask the Trainer: How do I respond to people who believe that consequences are necessary to change behavior?
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On Love and Empathy

Beginner Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  00:05 hours:minutes
Ask the Trainer: Is there any difference between the concept or experience of "love" and that of "empathy?"
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Hidden Needs

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  2 pages
Ask the Trainer: "I've been feeling frustrated and angry quite a bit lately over very simple things. Can you help me get to the root of my hidden needs?"
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Different Types of Requests

Intermediate Skill Level  •  Trainer Tip  •  2 pages
Ask the Trainer: "Could you share a list of types of requests, with examples of each and a possible strategy for formulating requests in conversation?"
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