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Our brains make patterns out of everything to save effort. But this has consequences on both how we treat others and on our ability to live nonviolently. The more we know about our own patterns, the more choice we have. Read on to learn our most important tendencies in groups, and what we can do in response.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration Read Time: 15 - 23 minutes
  • Production Date 03/2020
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 10
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles
Trainer Tip: When we create situations that value one person’s needs at the expense of another, we open the door for someone to lose. Instead, look to see if you can speak openly and honestly, value the other person’s needs, and create solutions that value all stakeholder needs.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 1-2 minutes
  • Production Date 10/2005
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Trainer Tips
Our world trains us to think in terms of providing for everyone’s needs because they deserve it, earned it, or they possess the resources -- it's fair, socially just, supports equality or because people have rights. Instead, can we step outside this worldview to look at providing for everyone’s needs because those needs exist -- can we hold this basic reverence for life? Are we able to have a needs-based dialogue when such a reframe could alienate those who live in the worldview of earn/deserve?

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 13 - 20 minutes
  • Production Date 05/2013
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 8
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles
We can trick ourselves into keeping the status quo, feeling unworthy, and blocking access to critical awareness necessary that allows for new creative solutions to emerge -- when we think in terms of who has "earned" or “deserved” what.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 5 - 8 minutes
  • Production Date 8/2017
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles
Learn to recognize four forms of thinking and speaking that are likely to lead to disconnection.

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  • Skill Level Introductory Skill Level
  • Duration 1 page
  • Production Date 01/2008
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Learning Tools
 
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