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John and Stephanie combine mediating conflict, parenting and study of brain science to this ground-breaking course recording on how to funnel your anger and your child’s anger toward mutual caring and peace.
The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy.
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- Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
- Duration 6 - 8 hours
- Production Date 11/10/2011
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- Multi Trainer Links John Kinyon and Stephanie Bachmann Mattei
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The pandemic asks us to examine the way we have always done things. It asks to try something new and notice what happens. This is an opportunity to ask why you have done holidays in a certain way and what needs it met to do it that way. Perhaps it is an opportunity to experiment and see what new things might arise. Read on for questions to ask yourself that might help you process your triggers, "should's", feelings, needs and dilemmas.
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- Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
- Duration Read time: 4 - 6 minutes
- Production Date 11/2020
- Premium Members N/A
- Points 2
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During the holiday season we may find ourselves taking responsibility for other's feelings, which can lead to guilt, shame, depression, and resentment. These feelings are exacerbated by the habitual pattern we call the "Vortex of Submission" (being hooked by a sense of duty and obligation). Read on for ways to recognize and break the pattern.
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- Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
- Duration 2 - 3 minutes
- Production Date 12/2004
- Premium Members N/A
- Points 2
- Multi Trainer Num 1
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Downloadable Recordings with Jim and Jori Manske
Downloadable Recordings with Jim and Jori Manske
Downloadable Recordings with Jim and Jori Manske
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Trainer Tip: When we love a child there's a contribution we can provide in helping them go their own way successfully, in big ways and small.
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- Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
- Duration Read time: 1-2 minutes
- Production Date 10/2005
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- Points 2
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This article aims to discuss shifting fully from power-over to sharing power in families; turning power struggles into dilemmas. It focuses on the topic of living in a partnership paradigm as a family...
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- Skill Level All Skill Levels
- Duration Read time: 16 - 24 minutes
- Production Date 01/2014
- Premium Members N/A
- Points 9
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Downloadable Recordings with Inbal Kashtan
Downloadable Recordings with Inbal Kashtan
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- participatory decision making
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Working on social justice and racial equity? If you include attending to white culture and privilege as part of that work, you'll reap important benefits. Understanding white culture — along with its embedded historical privileges — provides valuable insight into a larger system of inequity.
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- Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
- Duration 01:41 hours:minutes
- Production Date 6/9/2017
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For many, spending time with relatives over the holidays may be challenging. In addition to the love and care we may feel, family gatherings can bring up old hurts or expose painful differences. How many family meals have been marred by tense silence or devolved into harsh argument?
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- Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
- Duration Read Time: 6 - 10 minutes
- Production Date 12/18/2018
- Premium Members n/a
- Points 2
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Many families are far more complex and varied than they used to be. In this recording, Miki works with participants, focusing on specific challenges they’re facing with family members. Listen In.
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- Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
- Duration 01:14 hours:minutes
- Production Date 02/28/2014
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- Points 3
- Multi Trainer Num 1
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- Intermediate Skill Level
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Parenting can bring out the worst in us. Let's learn to meet the challenges of parenting with awareness, self-compassion and a spirit of inquiry, and explore a few practices to regain self-regulation, choice and freedom, staying anchored in the realization that as human beings we do have the capacity to respond with discernment rather than habitual reactivity.
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- Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
- Duration 00:50 hours:minutes
- Production Date 07/10/2013
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- Points 3
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- self empathy
- compassion
- self compassion
- conflict resolution
- families
- mental health
- relationships
- self connection
- power
- Stephanie Bachmann Mattei
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- Advanced Skill Level
- parenting
- brain science
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As parents, we often face challenging situations on a daily basis and struggle to create what we most long for. In this 6 session telecourse recording, you will learn how Nonviolent Communication can support a family culture where cooperation, trust, and peace are nurtured, and children and parents can flourish together.
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- Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
- Duration 07:29 hours:minutes
- Production Date 03/2010
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- Multi Trainer Num 1
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