Trainer Tip: Notice an opportunity today to use honesty as a means to connect with someone else. Consider what type of honesty might stimulate pain in others.

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2005
  • Duration Read time: 1-2 minutes
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What can we do when someone tells us we're contributing to a pattern we're genuinely not seeing (nor experiencing)? What makes these patterns visible to some people but not others? This article addresses these things by talking about what to factor in when receiving feedback; handling feedback; responding relationally; paying attention to social location; considering impact; plus, broadening our perspective to bring in greater care and awareness.

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  • Date Written/Produced 08/2018
  • Duration Read time: 5 - 8 minutes
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When we don't like what someone is saying to us, sometimes people encourage us to hear their needs, and "not take it personally" -- and we're inclined to agree.  Could "not taking it personally" close our hearts and awareness to others, life and ourselves?  Rachelle Lamb invites us to take a closer look at what it's like when we attend to the situation from our hearts, and skillfully reflect upon our actions with tenderness.

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  • Date Written/Produced 04/2018
  • Duration Read time: 10 - 15 minutes
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It can be challenging to tell people that you don’t like a certain behaviour or action of theirs. Even with supportive intentions and compassionate language your message might be difficult for someone to receive. Of course, we are not responsible for others’ reactions, but we are responsible to care about each other, and there are effective ways to express ourselves with more care.

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  • Date Written/Produced 01/2016
  • Duration 1 page
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When we take a leap in life and put our hearts out into the world in new or bigger ways—sharing a song, dance, or poem, writing a book, competing at a sporting event, giving a speech, and so on—there is greater potential for aliveness but also for shame and pain

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  • Date Written/Produced 01/2016
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How can you ask for feedback without checking your authenticity at the workplace door? CNVC Certified Trainer Jeff Brown explains that connection requests can help by attending to the quality of your relationship before the content of your request.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 00:05 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 05/19/2016
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This 5-session telecourse recording is designed to support you in learning what makes giving and receiving feedback challenging and how you can turn these experiences into opportunities for learning, connection, and effective functioning.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 01:11 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 12/07/2010
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  • Points 3
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This 5-session telecourse recording is designed to support you in learning what makes giving and receiving feedback challenging and how you can turn these experiences into opportunities for learning, connection, and effective functioning.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 01:05 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 11/16/2010
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This 5-session telecourse recording is designed to support you in learning what makes giving and receiving feedback challenging and how you can turn these experiences into opportunities for learning, connection, and effective functioning.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 00:59 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 11/02/2010
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  • Points 3
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Audio
This 5-session telecourse recording is designed to support you in learning what makes giving and receiving feedback challenging and how you can turn these experiences into opportunities for learning, connection, and effective functioning.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 01:00 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 10/20/2010
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  • Points 3
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