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An addiction to something (eg. opioids, fats, sugars, salts, cigarettes, coffee, alcohol, etc.) or a compulsion (eg. gambling, shopping, working, sex or love addictions) is often an unconscious attempt to soothe trauma - fear, loneliness and shame that's frozen in unconscious memory. The addiction or compulsion is a substitute for what we really need. It is an endless craving that's never enough. Read on for more.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 5 - 8 minutes
  • Production Date 01/2020
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  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Repairing betrayal may include rebuilding self trust, getting support, empathy on both sides over time, and new agreements. Even though your (in)actions don't "cause" someone's behavior, acknowledging any part you played in creating conditions for the behaviors to arise, can support repair. Trust builds slowly as new skills, ways of relating and experiences that reflect honesty, self responsibility, and respect are consistent over time.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 5- 8 minutes
  • Production Date 07/2019
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  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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As you witness injustices in the world, tension, anger, hopelessness, despair and more, may rise up in you. These feelings may lead to reactive thinking that doesn't contribute to healing nor wise action. Mourning is a universal need. If your culture pushed away grief and its emotional expression, you may have habits that block your access to the aliveness of grief. Read on for ways to give grief the space and support it needs.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 5-7 minutes
  • Production Date 10/2020
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  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Join Susan Skye as she guides you to experience profound transformation of the inner jackal messages resulting from childhood trauma. Discover how the limbic system of the brain works, and transform jackal messages stored there with compassionate connection.

The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 7 - 9 hours
  • Production Date 10/21/2010
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Our pattern-making minds make predictions about how best to survive in the world. So deep wounds from our past can influence our minds to make life long generalizations that harden into core beliefs about groups of people. Read on for a demonstration of how empathy can shift these wounds and thus the core beliefs.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 4 - 6 minutes
  • Production Date 10/2011
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  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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When we're received with resonant understanding painful moments can lessen their charge and became part of the whole tapestry of life -- important but no longer able to hijack us into the eternal re-run of pain. When held this way, we can touch the memories with our attention the way one touches a newly repaired tooth with the tongue, searching for the old roughness, the old wound, but not finding it.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 3 - 5 minutes
  • Production Date 02/2012
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  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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When faced with someone’s grief for the world, how do you engage with them in a way that is informed? In this session, Kristin suggests exploring what they might be grieving… what they’re afraid of losing… and what it is that they love.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 hour, 46 minutes
  • Production Date 02/22/2018
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  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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One clue we have trauma is when we respond in a way we don't want (eg. being reactive, self sabotaging, etc). Even when we have high level NVC skills our trauma-related mechanisms can activate, and we can lose access to well honed NVC skills. Read on for approaches that involve healing trauma, and approaches that involve managing the effects of trauma and preventing additional trauma.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 3 - 5 minutes
  • Production Date 11/2009
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  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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What don't we know about ourselves? Our unconscious contracts impact us, our shadow selves, and our relationships. In this snippet, Sarah uses her own unconscious contract to demonstrate navigating through reactions to today’s political environment. Listen.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 11 minutes
  • Production Date 11/17/2018
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  • Points 0
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Audio (Public)
Listen in as Sarah explores five common ways of bringing yourself back into balance after an emotional experience, and how an awareness of the difference between self-management and self-regulation can ease the process.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 55 minutes
  • Production Date 11/17/2017
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Points 0
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Audio (Public)
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