Library Resources with ineffective NVC

Why does NVC practice, and NVC training/coaching, appear to be not enough to bridge divides between people? This article takes a look at the trickle down effect of our societal conditioning, what we can add to our NVC lense, and what we can do "upstream" when NVC doesn't seem to be enough. Additionally, the article talks about unseen constraints that men, women and minority groups face in organizational settings...

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 12 - 18 minutes
  • Date Written/Produced 1/2018
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 10
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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When does identifying our or others' needs become a coping mechanism that hides the real problems that go unaddressed, and thereby reinforcing problems?  This article zooms out to take a look at how dealing with our needs in the absence of the larger picture can inadvertertly support unhealthy ways of operating, rather than become a healthy solution.  It asks us to see what could be hidden -- both on the personal and societal levels.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 7 - 11 minutes
  • Date Written/Produced 04/2018
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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What's really going on underneath the surface when we bring or encounter blame, judgements, pain -- and thereby the inability to empathise, be present, attuned, or responsive?  Why does this happen even if one or more people in a relationship dynamic is working hard at bringing in an NVC response? This article addresses these and more questions from the perspective of how our brains are affected in our relationships.

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  • Skill Level Introductory Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 4 - 6 minutes
  • Date Written/Produced 01/2018
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 3
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Sometimes there are moments when empathy has no effect at all on one another.  Why?  One reason could be that our brains might be less receptive because of unseen forces that affect our nervous system and relationship with others.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration Read Time: 10 - 15 minutes
  • Date Written/Produced 11/2017
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Getting "feel good" empathy can become an addiction. Even to the point of seeing people who don't offer empathy as "not being NVC". Rachelle urges us to notice how this view of NVC can be seductive, and even dangerous. In this article, she explains how we can expand our compassionate awareness when we go beyond equating NVC with harmony and empathy. She asks us to become more open to noticing others' experiences even if it challenges our personal and collective belief systems -- and especially when it upsets us to consider it.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 10 - 15 minutes
  • Date Written/Produced 03/2018
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Points 8
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Sometimes there are moments when empathy has no effect at all on one another.  Why?  One reason could be that our brains maybe less receptive because of unseen forces that affect our nervous system and relationship to others...

Additional Info

  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 3 - 5 minutes
  • Date Written/Produced 10/20/2017
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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