In lasers, light bounces between the mirrors, with each pass the light grows more intense. Our minds work similarly. Because of the "mirror" effect, where we can react to our reactions to our reactions to our reactions (and so on), changing our thought pattern even modestly at every level of reaction, can dramatically affect our ultimate experience.  Usually the greatest amplifiers are the ones we notice the least.  Learn what to notice -- to amplify more love rather than pain.

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  • Date Written/Produced 8/2016
  • Duration Read time: 5 - 7 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 4
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When we have an inner conflict, how can we bring ourselves closer where we want to be? Miki explains about how we can deepen our self understanding in a way that can transform our own reactivity, urges, and false either/or views -- so that we can bring in more presence, choice, and options.

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2015
  • Duration Read time: 13 - 19 minutes
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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Points 12
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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To keep our life energy moving and growing we can find the resources to welcome and accompany various parts of ourselves with compassion and love -- as though these parts are very young children.  And even if these parts contain difficult emotions...

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  • Date Written/Produced 04/2019
  • Duration Read time: 2 - 3 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner
  • Points 2
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How do we live each and every day from the “living energy of needs” – with the unimpeded fullness of life’s energies flowing through us, regardless of the conflicts or life circumstances we may be experiencing? Through developing deep self compassion. How can we experience our inner world from a place of utter and total compassion? When we practice compassionate self-care, we create an inner spaciousness that allows our life’s energies to flow. In that spaciousness both healing and inner transformation occurs. Robert’s work explores the interweaving of two co-intentions—to live life from the fullness of the “beauty of needs” and to approach every experience with deep compassion.

The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy:


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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 14-18 hours
  • Production Date 01/2010
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  • Points 1
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When building successful relationships, it can be very helpful to see yourself as a collection of different inner parts that developed due to various life experiences. Without empathy and acknowledgment, our inner parts tend to work against us. That's when we're called upon to build and develop our inner leadership...

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  • Date Written/Produced 11/2018
  • Duration Read time: 2 - 3 minutes
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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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For the ultimate romance to unfold, as an expression of your care for how your words and actions affect others, prioritize digging into your inner work before addressing conflict with them.  This means doing the inner work necessary to get to the root of the issue, which can bring bigger shifts, more aliveness, love, creativity, inspiration and compassion.  This doesn't mean letting the other person get away with unhealthy behaviour.

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  • Date Written/Produced 01/2018
  • Duration Read time: 6 - 9 minutes
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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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What parts of yourself or others are hard to embrace, understand or even notice?  What parts do others have difficulty embracing, understanding or noticing?  Why do we condemn, loathe, hate, deny, judge, blame or feel shame around certain needs, feelings and parts of self and/or others? This article talks about the hidden parts of ourselves and others that shapes views and behaviours.

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  • Date Written/Produced 01/2018
  • Duration Read time: 4 - 6 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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How can we live up to our true potential, a life filled with relationships and experiences that truly meet our needs? In this article, Mary offers us a way to bring about inner transformation that can lead to seeing ourselves, others and life differently -- for greater agency, empowerment and choice.

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  • Date Written/Produced 01/2010
  • Duration Read time: 5-8 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 6
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Do you yearn to step forward in leadership, but know you're holding back? Clinical psychologist, organizational consultant, and speaker, Roxy Manning, PhD, shows us that more than external factors, its our internal beliefs and fears that provide the main barrier to moving forward.  She does this by taking us through three myths of leadership, and weaves in anecdotes to illustrate how tapping our unique (often lesser recognized) qualities, can be the way forward we've been seeking. Learn ways to move forward, even if at first it appears that (1.) others can "do it better", (2.) you need to be more prepared, or even if (3.) the material you're conveying isn't so original (and has been used many times).

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  • Date Written/Produced 1/2010
  • Duration Read time: 7-11 mins
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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Points 6
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Listen in as Robert guides people through the process of transforming resistance. Daily practice of this transformational process develops your capacity to be with your inner experience and live free of the experience of the pain of life.

Additional Info

  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 01:22 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 5/2/2018
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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