Trainer Tip: Our inner critic judges ourselves and other people; and it is the most likely to get scared when we begin to make a change. It holds wisdom for us if we are willing to listen. When we acknowledge our inner critic and empathize with its need, we gain insights into ourselves and we clear the way for resolution.

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2005
  • Duration Read time: 1-2 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Do you want to increase your capacity to identify and connect with feelings and needs?  Would you like to enhance your ability to translate judgments? Join Miki for this deep dive into feelings and needs.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 02:21 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 06/24/2008
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  • Points 6
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Trainer Tip: Today, identify the facts, without adding your ideas about why people behave in certain ways. Then consider connecting with the person about what was going on with them. You will find that the more you observe life without judgment and evaluation, the more open you will be to hearing and connecting with other people.

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2005
  • Duration Read time: 1-2 minutes
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Skill Level Introductory Skill Level
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Trainer Tips
How can we live up to our true potential, a life filled with relationships and experiences that truly meet our needs? In this article, Mary offers us a way to bring about inner transformation that can lead to seeing ourselves, others and life differently -- for greater agency, empowerment and choice.

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  • Date Written/Produced 01/2010
  • Duration Read time: 5-8 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 6
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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When you or anyone is upset, what could underneath it all?  There may be more than is immediately visible.  This article invites us to explore what it looks like to inquire deeper, take self-responsibility, examine our assumptions, attachments, interpretations, and "certainties" that could be hidden behind the needs that are aching to be attended to...

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  • Date Written/Produced 10/2017
  • Duration Read time: 7-10 minutes
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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Points 6
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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When we don't like what someone is saying to us, sometimes people encourage us to hear their needs, and "not take it personally" -- and we're inclined to agree.  Could "not taking it personally" close our hearts and awareness to others, life and ourselves?  Rachelle Lamb invites us to take a closer look at what it's like when we attend to the situation from our hearts, and skillfully reflect upon our actions with tenderness.

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  • Date Written/Produced 04/2018
  • Duration Read time: 10 - 15 minutes
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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Points 10
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles
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