Library Resources with safety

Even in a conflict, you can offer emotional safety without being enmeshed -- and you can do this without sliding into strategies to gain power over another. You can prioritize connection, express your intention, make space for mutuality, honestly reveal what you care about and propose a way forward. This means caring for your needs regardless of their response -- and mourning if their response isn't what you want. Read on for more.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 5 - 7 minutes
  • Production Date 02/2020
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles
What do we actually mean by “use of force” and what counts as such? Here's a template that will be unpacked in this article: "Use of force is consistent with nonviolence to the extent that we use the least amount of force possible, with the most love possible, aiming at (re)creating conditions for dialogue; that we make the choice using as much nonreactive discernment as possible, with as much support for the choice as possible, and while mourning not seeing another way to respond to a situation in which vital needs are at stake except to use force". Read on for more.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 37 - 56 minutes
  • Production Date 05/2020
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 14
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles
Here's a brief anecdote showing how one woman was able transform a situation, where a man was about to assault or rape her. She responded in a creative way that lead them both to see each others' humanity -- navigating them both to safety. As part of her ingenuity he ended up spending the night in her house, in another room.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration Read time: 1 - 2 minutes
  • Production Date 12/2016
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles
In pandemic we can notice where we seek security. For some, financial systems that seemed to offer security have suddenly become unpredictable. For others, living without such privilege, resources are even more difficult to access. And we become more vulnerable to illness and death. These changes can trigger fear, but also motivate choices that contribute to a sense of security. Read on for more.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration Read time: 4-6 minutes
  • Production Date 04/2020
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles
What will it take to reclaim our fundamental relatedness with all things alive, surrender our attempts to control nature, and find a way of living that averts or mitigates the worst possible catastrophes awaiting us while it's still possible?

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 33 pages
  • Production Date 6/2017
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles

Listen to John answer an NVC Multimedia Library member's question about what we can do when we habitually place other's needs ahead our own. Healing and change can be reached through compassionate self-connection, mourning and mindfulness.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 9 minutes
  • Production Date 11/15/2011
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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