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For each reactive pattern there is a perceived threat to a tender need. Knowing these tender needs helps us figure out how to interrupt these patterns and creating new ways of perceiving and relating to life. In addition to knowing the need, knowing the healing response and the primary reactive behavior helps with transformation.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 6-9 minutes
  • Production Date 2/2018
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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An anchor awakens parts of you that can access a bigger perspective. It calms and helps you engage presence for greater access to your skills. Also, it can reduce your reactivity, increase conscious relating, and support self-compassion. An anchor helps you get a little bit bigger than the reactivity you are experiencing so that you can access a wiser discernment. It is simple, and can be done anytime and anywhere. Learn more about how to develop your anchor in self-empathy.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 5 - 8 minutes
  • Production Date 4/2019
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Sometimes even a very skilled empathy practicitioner can go into offering a non-empathic response, even when asked for empathy.  Why?  One reason could be that our brains might be less receptive because of unseen forces that affect our brain and relationship with others.  This article speaks to the deeper "why" and also to one thing we could do to turn it around...

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration Read Time: 3 - 5 minutes
  • Production Date 10/2018
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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For the ultimate romance to unfold, as an expression of your care for how your words and actions affect others, prioritize digging into your inner work before addressing conflict with them.  This means doing the inner work necessary to get to the root of the issue, which can bring bigger shifts, more aliveness, love, creativity, inspiration and compassion.  This doesn't mean letting the other person get away with unhealthy behaviour.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration Read time: 6 - 9 minutes
  • Production Date 01/2018
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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What parts of yourself or others are hard to embrace, understand or even notice?  What parts do others have difficulty embracing, understanding or noticing?  Why do we condemn, loathe, hate, deny, judge, blame or feel shame around certain needs, feelings and parts of self and/or others? This article talks about the hidden parts of ourselves and others that shapes views and behaviours.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 4 - 6 minutes
  • Production Date 01/2018
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles
What's really going on underneath the surface when we bring or encounter blame, judgements, pain -- and thereby the inability to empathise, be present, attuned, or responsive?  Why does this happen even if one or more people in a relationship dynamic is working hard at bringing in an NVC response? This article addresses these and more questions from the perspective of how our brains are affected in our relationships.

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  • Skill Level Introductory Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 4 - 6 minutes
  • Production Date 01/2018
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 3
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Sometimes there are moments when empathy has no effect at all on one another.  Why?  One reason could be that our brains might be less receptive because of unseen forces that affect our nervous system and relationship with others.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration Read Time: 10 - 15 minutes
  • Production Date 11/2017
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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When you or anyone is upset, what could underneath it all?  There may be more than is immediately visible.  This article invites us to explore what it looks like to inquire deeper, take self-responsibility, examine our assumptions, attachments, interpretations, and "certainties" that could be hidden behind the needs that are aching to be attended to...

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 7-10 minutes
  • Production Date 10/2017
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Points 6
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Sometimes there are moments when empathy has no effect at all on one another.  Why?  One reason could be that our brains maybe less receptive because of unseen forces that affect our nervous system and relationship to others...

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 3 - 5 minutes
  • Production Date 10/20/2017
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles

Listen to this short 3 session telecourse recording with CNVC Certified Trainer Christine King, and you will learn how to honor the wisdom that your anger, fear, shame and other BIG emotions have for you.

The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 3 - 4 hours
  • Production Date 06/13/2011
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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