CNVC Certified Trainer from Long Beach, California, USA
Mary Mackenzie is a CNVC Certified Trainer, the executive director of the Peace Workshop International and co-founder of the NVC Academy. She holds an MA degree in Human Relations and is a trained mediator.
Mary is the author of Peaceful Living: Daily Meditations for Living with Love, Healing and Compassion.
Mary’s first career was as a fundraiser in higher education, where her listening skills helped people realize their dreams and helped her raise millions of dollars for the universities for whom she worked. She ended this fifteen-year career to begin work with the newly-formed Flagstaff Center for Compassionate Communication and thus started her journey in NVC.
Mary’s guiding vision is to help people fully connect to themselves and their world so that they may experience more joy. Toward this end, she teaches Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to individuals, families and couples, and she works with organizations by offering individual or group workshops and facilitating organization-wide restructuring. Her primary focus is to make NVC easy to understand and integrate, thus making it accessible to everyone.
Website: Peace Workshop International
Website: NVC Academy
Trainer Tip: Mary explains why success isn't dependent upon another person's pain, by reaching for consensus instead of self-sacrifice.
Trainer Tip: The needs we focus on meeting and the strategies we use to meet those needs change over time. Mary shares about the life-serving nature of change.
Trainer Tip: Mary shares an experience about accepting responsibility for her actions and how that lead her to greater choice and freedom.
Trainer Tip: Using NVC as a tool to transform our judgments can revolutionize our perceptions and relationships.
Trainer Tip: Sometimes the best way to get our need me is to first connect with the needs of another.
Trainer Tip: We can expand our connection to humanity by considering the many strategies people use to meet our common needs.
Trainer Tip: Anger is a prominent call to gain our attention. Mary explains why it's worth heeding that call.
Trainer Tip: NVC asks us to be aware of our needs and discomfort is evidence of an unment need. However focusing on ourselves when we're uncomfortable isn't always the best choice.