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Parenting and Anger: Walking the Ultimate Path to Peace (Part 5)

with John Kinyon and Stephanie Bachmann Mattei

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:29 hours:minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:29 hours:minutes

John and Stephanie combine mediating conflict, parenting and study of brain science to this ground-breaking course recording on how to funnel your anger and your child’s anger toward mutual caring and peace.

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Parenting and Anger: Walking the Ultimate Path to Peace (Part 4)

with John Kinyon and Stephanie Bachmann Mattei

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:02 hours:minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:02 hours:minutes

John and Stephanie combine mediating conflict, parenting and study of brain science to this ground-breaking course recording on how to funnel your anger and your child’s anger toward mutual caring and peace.

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Parenting and Anger: Walking the Ultimate Path to Peace (Part 3)

with John Kinyon and Stephanie Bachmann Mattei

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:32 hours:minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:32 hours:minutes

John and Stephanie combine mediating conflict, parenting and study of brain science to this ground-breaking course recording on how to funnel your anger and your child’s anger toward mutual caring and peace.

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Parenting and Anger: Walking the Ultimate Path to Peace (Part 2)

with John Kinyon and Stephanie Bachmann Mattei

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:09 hours:minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:09 hours:minutes

John and Stephanie combine mediating conflict, parenting and study of brain science to this ground-breaking course recording on how to funnel your anger and your child’s anger toward mutual caring and peace.

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Parenting and Anger: Walking the Ultimate Path to Peace (Part 1)

with John Kinyon and Stephanie Bachmann Mattei

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:09 hours:minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:09 hours:minutes

John and Stephanie combine mediating conflict, parenting and study of brain science to this ground-breaking course recording on how to funnel your anger and your child’s anger toward mutual caring and peace.

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Defusing Anger

with Mary Mackenzie

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 1 page

Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
1 page

Trainer Tip: Many of us are afraid of our anger because we haven’t learned how to express it in a way that brings relief or that helps us meet our needs in the situation. Consider a different approach to anger, one that helps you fully express your anger and is more likely to help you meet your needs for relief, to be heard, or to be understood.

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Looking at Anger from an NVC Perspective

with Wes Taylor

Beginner Skill Level • Video • 00:11 hours:minutes

Beginner Skill Level
Video
00:11 hours:minutes

In this vintage 1999 video, CNVC Certified Trainer, Wes Taylor leads a group of young people in a lively discussion on working with anger.

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Expressing Anger Peacefully

with Raj Gill

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:16 hours:minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:16 hours:minutes

In this prerecorded telecourse, Raj Gil uses an interactive dialogue and proven exercises to help you develop a profoundly healthy response to anger, right in the moment.

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The Mobilizing Power of Anger

with LaShelle Lowe-Chardé

All Skill Levels • Article • Read time: 3-5 minutes

All Skill Levels
Article
Read time: 3-5 minutes

Anger can result in violence or in a movement towards positive change. We can see this happen in the push for racial justice. When you perceive anger as a form of violence your nervous system becomes activated. Your perspective narrows and old conditioning can take over leading to overwhelm, defensiveness, hatred, or violence. Read on for four ways to to respond to our own or others' anger in a...

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Using Anger to Serve Life

with Mary Mackenzie

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • Read time: 1-2 minutes

Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
Read time: 1-2 minutes

Trainer Tip: Sometimes we need to empathize with a person before he can hear our anger. Consider that all anger is an expression of an unmet need. If we focus on the need, rather than the actions, we are more likely to connect compassionately with other people. Be aware of opportunities to empathize with someone’s anger today.

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Using Anger as a Warning

with Mary Mackenzie

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 1 page

Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
1 page

Trainer Tip: If you are feeling anger, you are experiencing an unmet need. When you recognize it as a warning signal, it can be a life-serving tool.

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Using Anger as a Beacon

with Mary Mackenzie

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 1 page

Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
1 page

Trainer Tip: Anger is a prominent call to gain our attention. Mary explains why it's worth heeding that call.

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NVC Life Hacks 4: Anger

with Shantigarbha Warren

Beginner Skill Level • Video • 00:04 hours:minutes

Beginner Skill Level
Video
00:04 hours:minutes

Anger is an emotion we'd often like to disown! Shantigarbha offers us five tips for "finding the life" in our anger, and ends with a short, guided reflection.

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Self-Righteous Anger

with Mary Mackenzie

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 1 page

Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
1 page

Trainer Tip: Have you ever noticed that some of your behaviors ensure that your needs for peace and relief won’t be met? Take judgments for instance. The more we have, the less peaceful and happy we feel.

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Using NVC When the Going Gets Rough: Empathy for the Roots of Rage: Time, Anger and the Brain

with Sarah Peyton

Beginner Skill Level • Audio • 00:48 hours:minutes

Beginner Skill Level
Audio
00:48 hours:minutes

Do you ever experience being overtaken by your anger or rage, almost as if you have no choice, once the avalanche begins? When the enormity of our anger far exceeds the circumstances that elicit it, we are often dealing with deep roots of pain - learn how to work with these roots with empathy.

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Transforming Anger: The Enemy Image Process and Learning/Growth Spiral

with John Kinyon

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:11 hours:minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:11 hours:minutes

Transforming anger is a key practice for returning to conscious presence and connection with self and others when triggered into a reaction. Join John Kinyon to learn this essential life skill.

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When Someone's Anger Stimulates Fear for My Physical Safety

with Arnina Kashtan

Beginner Skill Level • Audio • 00:07 hours/minutes

Beginner Skill Level
Audio
00:07 hours/minutes

CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan tells us to look to our inner dialogue and the other's needs when we're feeling fear of physical violence that's been stimlated by someone's anger.

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Being Honest About Our Anger

with Mary Mackenzie

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 1 page

Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
1 page

Trainer Tip: Mary shares how staying present to our anger and finding the underlying feelings and needs can lead to deeper connection and more satisfying outcomes.

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Using NVC When the Going Gets Rough: This is Your Brain on Anger

with Eric Bowers

Beginner Skill Level • Audio • 00:53 hours:minutes

Beginner Skill Level
Audio
00:53 hours:minutes

What's happening in the brain and why, when you're flooded with intense emotions. In this session, we'll look at how you can train your brain to manage stronger emotions, yours and others.

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Responding to Anger

with LaShelle Lowe-Chardé

Beginner Skill Level • Article • Read time: 5-8 minutes

Beginner Skill Level
Article
Read time: 5-8 minutes

When someone wants to speak angrily about another, do you want to move away, try to calm them, argue, set a boundary, or offer empathy? What supports you to stay self connected? You can set boundaries regarding listening so that you're less likely to defend the other party, or attempt to talk your friend down from their judgments, thereby escalating the situation. Disagreements can also ignite...

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