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Tips for the Road Series: Tip 2. Cultivate Connection before Asking for Action

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 1 page
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
1 page
Learn when to use the two types of requests in the practice of Nonviolent Communication: Action Requests and Connection Requests. Both are important when working through conflict or difficult situations and for building connection.

Workplace Series: When Purpose Trumps Connection

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 00:06 hours:minutes
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
00:06 hours:minutes
In most business environments, purpose holds a higher priority than connection. Listen to Miki discuss the strategy of using minimum connection to remain true to the purpose at hand, and how the purpose of empathy may differ in the workplace.

Making Collaboration Real: Connection and Effectiveness in the Workplace Using NVC (Part 3)

with Francois Beausoleil, Martha Lasley and Miki Kashtan
Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 00:57 hours:minutes
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
00:57 hours:minutes
This 3-session telecourse recording facitlitated by Francois Beausoleil, Martha Lasley and Miki Kashtan will support you in bringing NVC consciousness to your workplace or organization.

Making Collaboration Real: Connection and Effectiveness in the Workplace Using NVC (Part 2)

with Francois Beausoleil, Martha Lasley and Miki Kashtan
Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:19 hours:minutes
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:19 hours:minutes
This 3-session telecourse recording facitlitated by Francois Beausoleil, Martha Lasley and Miki Kashtan will support you in bringing NVC consciousness to your workplace or organization.

Making Collaboration Real: Connection and Effectiveness in the Workplace Using NVC (Part 1)

with Francois Beausoleil, Martha Lasley and Miki Kashtan
Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:00 hours:minutes
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:00 hours:minutes
This 3-session telecourse recording facitlitated by Francois Beausoleil, Martha Lasley and Miki Kashtan will support you in bringing NVC consciousness to your workplace or organization.

Taste of Compassionate Leadership Series: Sowing the Quilt of Connection

Beginner Skill Level • Audio • 01:03 hours:minutes
Beginner Skill Level
Audio
01:03 hours:minutes
Jim Manske offers practices to stay in dialogue without defensiveness, especially when it's difficult. Listen to Jim discuss the refining of our commitment to connection and how to respond to others' defensiveness too.

Awareness of Marginalization Can Support Connection

Intermediate Skill Levels • Article • Read time: 7 - 11 minutes
Intermediate Skill Levels
Article
Read time: 7 - 11 minutes
With abundant evidence that most people have unconscious biases against people --even when that bias runs counter to their own values-- there's a strong chance you recreate this disconnect with people far more often than you recognize. So even with a high degree of NVC skills you may behave in a way that seems "NVC" but also reproduces the painful patterns that marginalized people all-too-often...

From Obedience and Shame to Freedom and Belonging: Transforming Patriarchal Paradigms of Child-Rearing in the Age of Global Warming

Intermediate Skill Level • Article • 33 pages
Intermediate Skill Level
Article
33 pages
What will it take to reclaim our fundamental relatedness with all things alive, surrender our attempts to control nature, and find a way of living that averts or mitigates the worst possible catastrophes awaiting us while it's still possible?

Differentiating Between Feelings And Faux Feelings

Introductory Skill Level • Learning Tool • N/A
Introductory Skill Level
Learning Tool
N/A
This chart is intended as an aid to translating words that are often confused with feelings. These words imply that someone is doing something to you and generally connote wrongness or blame. To use this list, when somebody says “I’m feeling rejected,” you might translate this as: “Are you feeling scared because you have a need for inclusion?”

I'll Work on Me, You Work on You

with Jim Manske
Beginner Skill Level • Article • Read time: 5-8 minutes
Beginner Skill Level
Article
Read time: 5-8 minutes
As a beginner in NVC, you might find your attempts to practice your NVC only increases conflict, disconnection and upset in your interactions with people. Or perhaps people start seeing you as inauthentic. From there, you may find yourself sinking deeper into self-judgement. In this article, Jim Manske shows us how to shift these potential unintended outcomes, into deeper NVC consciousness that...

 
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