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Acknowledging Our Inner Critic

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • Read time: 1-2 minutes
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
Read time: 1-2 minutes
Trainer Tip: Our inner critic judges ourselves and other people; and it is the most likely to get scared when we begin to make a change. It holds wisdom for us if we are willing to listen. When we acknowledge our inner critic and empathize with its need, we gain insights into ourselves and we clear the way for resolution.

NVC and Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)

Intermediate Skill Level • Video • 00:42 hours:minutes
Intermediate Skill Level
Video
00:42 hours:minutes
Nonviolent Communication and Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction are both life-giving practices, deeply rooted in our natural abilities for attention, care, empathy, and compassion. Join Stephanie and Maurizio guide us through an exploration of both Nonviolent Communication and Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction and the relationships we cultivate with ourselves and others.

Taking 100% Responsibility for Every Relationship (Complete Course)

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 4 - 6 hours
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
4 - 6 hours
Taking 100% Responsibility offers a powerful antidote to the all-too-common dynamic of blaming that leaves you in the victim position and unable to have the relationship you want. Miki invites you to assume a stance of leadership while holding full care for both parties’ needs. No longer will you need to wait for the other person to change, nor will you need to give up your needs to reach...

Parenting and Anger: Walking the Ultimate Path to Peace (Part 1)

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:09 hours:minutes
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:09 hours:minutes
John and Stephanie combine mediating conflict, parenting and study of brain science to this ground-breaking course recording on how to funnel your anger and your child’s anger toward mutual caring and peace.

Parenting and Anger: Walking the Ultimate Path to Peace (Part 2)

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:09 hours:minutes
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:09 hours:minutes
John and Stephanie combine mediating conflict, parenting and study of brain science to this ground-breaking course recording on how to funnel your anger and your child’s anger toward mutual caring and peace.

Parenting and Anger: Walking the Ultimate Path to Peace (Part 3)

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:32 hours:minutes
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:32 hours:minutes
John and Stephanie combine mediating conflict, parenting and study of brain science to this ground-breaking course recording on how to funnel your anger and your child’s anger toward mutual caring and peace.

Parenting and Anger: Walking the Ultimate Path to Peace (Part 4)

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:02 hours:minutes
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:02 hours:minutes
John and Stephanie combine mediating conflict, parenting and study of brain science to this ground-breaking course recording on how to funnel your anger and your child’s anger toward mutual caring and peace.

Parenting and Anger: Walking the Ultimate Path to Peace (Part 5)

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 01:29 hours:minutes
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
01:29 hours:minutes
John and Stephanie combine mediating conflict, parenting and study of brain science to this ground-breaking course recording on how to funnel your anger and your child’s anger toward mutual caring and peace.

What Are Enemy Images?

Beginner Skill Level • Audio • 00:05 hours:minutes
Beginner Skill Level
Audio
00:05 hours:minutes
In this compelling interview with Liv Larsson, CNVC Certified Trainer from Sweden, the NVC concept of enemy images — how they develop, what they represent and how they affect our relationships with others and self — is explored.

VIVENCIA: The Art of Empathic Intelligence (complete course)

Beginner Skill Level • Audio • 09:54 hours:minutes
Beginner Skill Level
Audio
09:54 hours:minutes
In this telecourse recording, you'll learn to differentiate between cerebral empathy and intuitive empathic listening. Awaken your sensitivity towards body sensations and inner feelings to recognize the clear inner clues to your empathic connection.

Street NVC: Bringing Your NVC Practice into Everyday Life! (Complete Course)

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 3 - 4 hours
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
3 - 4 hours
Listen to CNVC Certified Trainer Dian Killian show you how to easily step into the mindset of an NVC practice—the spirit of connection and collaboration—that will support you in authentically connecting with others. The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy.

Increasing Your Capacity to Feel

Introductory Skill Level • Article • Read time: 4 - 6 minutes
Introductory Skill Level
Article
Read time: 4 - 6 minutes
What's really going on underneath the surface when we bring or encounter blame, judgements, pain -- and thereby the inability to empathise, be present, attuned, or responsive? Why does this happen even if one or more people in a relationship dynamic is working hard at bringing in an NVC response? This article addresses these and more questions from the perspective of how our brains are affected...

Tips for the Road Series: Tip 13. The Eight Most Powerful Things You Can Do to Build an Inspiring Relationship

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 4 pages
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
4 pages
What are the most powerful things I can do to build an inspired relationship? I answered the question with romantic relationships in mind; however, I believe the answer below applies to all important relationships.

Tips for the Road Series: Tip 7. Talk about Conflict When You’re Not in Conflict

Beginner Skill Level • Trainer Tip • 4 pages
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
4 pages
Conflict is a normal and natural part of life. To varying degrees, it happens whenever two or more people consistently spend time together. Resolving conflict effectively and peacefully, in a way in which all parties feel respected and valued, does not feel natural for those of us who grew up with punitive, adversarial, or avoidant approaches to conflict. Eric offers some tips for approaching...

Observation: The Awareness of the Thoughts, Stories and Core Beliefs to Enhance Connection

Intermediate Skill Level • Audio • 02:10 hours:minutes
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
02:10 hours:minutes
In this recorded telecourse, John Kinyon, world renowned CNVC Certified Trainer, guides you through processes to strengthen your capacity for mindful presence and awareness of your thinking, and to develop the skills to translate thoughts into observations.

 
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