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Blame is the game that protects me from the understanding that the cause of all my emotional distress, fear, shame and guilt comes from the part of me I call "the inner voice." As long as I keep the big bony finger of blame pointed in your direction, I can remain unaware of the fact that it is what I am telling myself about your behavior that is stimulating my painful reactions. 

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 4 -6 minutes
  • Production Date 2000
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  • Payee Kelly Bryson
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

In this inspiring audio, Kelly discusses the true value of transparency and "truth." He defines truth as the whole truth, including our inner experience; this could also be called self transparency.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 5 minutes
  • Production Date 05/2009
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  • Payee Kelly Bryson
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Speaking the truth creates congruence, which creates trust, facilitating understanding and cooperation. Without truth there is no growth in our relationships and community. If this is true, then what keeps us from speaking our truth?

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 2 hours, 14 minutes
  • Production Date 06/2008
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Payee Kelly Bryson
  • Points 5
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

In this prerecorded telecourse, Kelly uses humor, stories and practical ideas to help spouses, lovers, friends and parents discover how freedom and autonomy are the basis for all healthy relationships.

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  • Skill Level Advanced Skill Level
  • Duration 2 hours, 15 minutes
  • Production Date 02/2008
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Payee Kelly Bryson
  • Points 5
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Does NVC seem like a good idea, but not practical? Do you feel frustrated when you find yourself in the same jackal scenario repeatedly? Let beloved trainer Kathleen Macferran guide you toward integrating NVC into all aspects of your life.

The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 6.5 - 9 hours
  • Production Date 09/2007
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Payee Kathleen Macferran
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Inbal clarifies the difference between needs and strategies, and why the distinction is important in our parenting role. She offers two questions to ask yourself if you're not certain whether something is a need or strategy.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 9 minutes
  • Production Date 2005
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Payee Kathy Simon
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Using her own and participants' examples, Inbal illuminates parents on where they might be struggling with connecting to their children's needs, especially in situations where the children are responding to the parent's request.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 15 minutes
  • Production Date 2005
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Payee Kathy Simon
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
In this pre-recorded video training, Inbal offers parents and anyone with children in their life a lucid discussion of the important role self-empathy plays in creating healthy, supportive relationships.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 00:14 hours:minutes
  • Production Date 2005
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Inbal responds to the question "Is bribery an acceptable tool for compliance?' and helps us understand the five habitual reasons we do things.

Additional Info

  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 11 minutes
  • Production Date 2005
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Payee Kathy Simon
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Inbal speaks to a group about our habit of demanding something of our children but making it sound like a request, the components of a true request and the importance of being honest when making a demand.

Additional Info

  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 8 minutes
  • Production Date 2005
  • Premium Members Premium Members
  • Payee Kathy Simon
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1