He’s talking about choosing to live in presence on a daily basis and he says, “For example, when we are paying for our groceries we are either focusing on the stuff that we are purchasing or we are focusing on the cashier who is ringing up the items for us. We are either fretting about the prices of the products in front of us or we are greeting the cashier warmly. We are either worrying about whether we have got all the right things for the dinner we need to prepare or we are asking the cashier how his or her weekend was. We are either opening the gap by focusing on the stuff in it, or closing the gap (to connection) by acknowledging the Presence on the other side of it. It is this simple. It is this obvious. It is this easy.”
There was a moment when I was in a phone store and I opened my mouth and said something to the clerk that truly demonstrated that I wasn’t connected to his humanness. In that moment I thought “So, you think it’s okay to NOT live your NVC principles because you’re frustrated and because you don’t know him and probably won’t ever see him again? How is that living in integrity?”
In that moment, I made a decision to be committed to living my NVC values no matter. Well, the truth is I do miss the mark sometimes as everyone does, but not nearly as often. My intention stays firm, to live my values no matter what. If I miss the mark, I give myself and other people empathy.
The daily living in my values is an ongoing commitment, moment to moment.
How about you. What intention are you living?
Tags: NVC Consciousness
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