Trainer Tips (312)
Past Stories, Present Feelings
with Sylvia Haskvitz
Trainer Tip • 2 - 3 minutes • Circa 2007
Intermediate Skill Level
Trainer Tip
2 - 3 minutes
Circa 2007
Trainer Tip
2 - 3 minutes
Circa 2007
Ask the Trainer: "I have noticed that sometimes when I am in a story-telling mood I am usually trying to prove that I am right and once I connect with a need the urge to give all the information goes away."
Confidentiality Agreement
with Miki Kashtan
Trainer Tip • 4 - 6 minutes • 2007
Advanced Skill Level
Trainer Tip
4 - 6 minutes
2007
Trainer Tip
4 - 6 minutes
2007
Ask the Trainer: "A participant in our beginners' NVC practice group asked the co-facilitators if there was a confidentiality agreement that was typically used in NVC practice groups?"
Is NVC Always, in the End, “Just One-on-One”?
with Miki Kashtan
Trainer Tip • 3-5 minutes • 2007
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
3-5 minutes
2007
Trainer Tip
3-5 minutes
2007
Ask the Trainer: "Can you share stories of transforming group conflict, or is NVC strictly intended for 'one-on-one' work?"
The Cause of Our Feelings
Trainer Tip • 3-5 minutes • Circa 2007
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
3-5 minutes
Circa 2007
Trainer Tip
3-5 minutes
Circa 2007
Ask the Trainer: “I would love some clarity about the NVC perspective on the cause of our feelings. It seems to me that my needs may be met or not, but the cause of my painful feelings is my story around the situation.”
Self-Empathy: A Direct Route to Personal Healing
with Mary Mackenzie
Trainer Tip • 1 - 2 minutes • 05/24/2005
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
05/24/2005
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
05/24/2005
Trainer Tip: It is true that we cannot fully understand other people until we understand ourselves. Gain understanding and healing through self-empathy within the Compassionate Communication process.
Teachers Expressing to Students and Colleagues
with Miki Kashtan
Trainer Tip • 3 - 5 minutes • Circa 2007
Advanced Skill Level
Trainer Tip
3 - 5 minutes
Circa 2007
Trainer Tip
3 - 5 minutes
Circa 2007
Ask the Trainer: "I just started teaching in a public school and I'm not enjoying the violence that teachers express towards children and their colleagues. However, when I talk about NVC, most people listen but I feel they're either not understanding it or ..."
Different Types of Requests
with Miki Kashtan
Trainer Tip • 2 - 3 minutes • 2008
Intermediate Skill Level
Trainer Tip
2 - 3 minutes
2008
Trainer Tip
2 - 3 minutes
2008
Ask the Trainer: "Could you share a list of types of requests, with examples of each and a possible strategy for formulating requests in conversation?"
Every Angry Message is a "Please"
with Mary Mackenzie
Trainer Tip • 1-2 minutes • 10/2005
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
1-2 minutes
10/2005
Trainer Tip
1-2 minutes
10/2005
Trainer Tip: Anger can be an opportunity to hear the "Please" behind the words and create a path to resolve conflicts compassionately.
Connect Before Correct
with Sylvia Haskvitz
Trainer Tip • 2-3 minutes • Circa 2007
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
2-3 minutes
Circa 2007
Trainer Tip
2-3 minutes
Circa 2007
Ask the Trainer: "Recently, I was sitting in my weekly practice group trying to connect to my reasons for wanting to give empathy to a particular person. She was telling us about some painful feeling she was having, but was not connecting to her needs."
How to Handle Being Judged
with Sylvia Haskvitz
Trainer Tip • 2 - 3 minutes • Circa 2007
Intermediate Skill Level
Trainer Tip
2 - 3 minutes
Circa 2007
Trainer Tip
2 - 3 minutes
Circa 2007
Ask the Trainer: "I am wondering what to do with a judgment that is expressed by someone about me. In these situations I can't find the unmet need they are expressing (other than perhaps significance)."