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Could our "need for autonomy" be getting in the way of "partnership consciousness" (as NVC is sometimes called). Could "autonomy" also block healthy relationships with not only ourselves and with others, but also with the planet? This article invites us to consider how "autonomy" may colour our NVC practice at the peril of our critical values. Values such as our care for impact, shared responsibility, interdependence, compassion, consideration, and more...

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 8 - 12 minutes
  • Production Date 01/2018
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  • Points 3
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Differentiation is being who you are in the presence of who they are. Its a process of connecting to and honoring your own experience, acting in integrity with your values, and engaging in collaboration with others to meet needs. If you're happier when you are not in an intimate relationship you may have developed your individuality but likely have difficulty with differentiation. Learn core skills and behaviors that support differentiation.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 4 - 6 minutes
  • Production Date 1/2019
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  • Payee LaShelle Lowe-Chardé
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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No one likes demands. Do you want to have access to choice when requests or demands come your way? Join CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan as she provides tools to free yourself from the submit/rebel dynamic.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 hour, 8 minutes
  • Production Date 03/11/2009
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  • Payee Arnina Kashtan
  • Points 3
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Trainer tip: NVC consciousness recognizes interdependence. In this process each person is autonomous; everyone's needs matter; people have choice and responsibility for their actions; there's abundance, and a valuing of coming together. The dependence / independence paradigm assumes we either need someone else to be whole -- or we don’t need others at all. Commit to living autonomously. Notice where you struggle with this.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Production Date 10/2005
  • Premium Members

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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Trainer Tips