Library Resources with care for the whole
What could be, more often than not, overlooked when we think about or represent NVC or Marshall Rosenberg's work? This article busts some commonly held ideas and approaches to NVC. It challenges us to widen the lens of what it really means to be "life-serving", or speaking and hearing the "language of life". And it also speaks to how thinking can deepen feeling and relatedness...
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- Skill Level All Skill Levels
- Duration 12 - 18 minutes
- Date Added 12/2017
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- Payee Rachelle Lamb
- Points 6
- Multi Trainer Num 1
- Rachelle Lamb
- social change
- interdependence
- Marshall Rosenberg
- Marshall
- Rosenberg
- sustainability
- systemic change
- planetary sustainability
- society
- dominant culture
- partnership
- partnership consciousness
- care for the whole
- questioning NVC
- questioning NVC culture
- human centered
- anthropocentric
- life enriching structures
- web of life
- Introductory Skill Level
- Beginner Skill Level
- Intermediate Skill Level
- Advanced Skill Level
- NVC myth
- social justice
- intention
- attention
- needs
- life serving
- life enriching
- language of life
- All Skill Levels
- universal human needs
- activism
- protective use of force
- NVC & Society
Getting "feel good" empathy can become an addiction. Even to the point of seeing people who don't offer empathy as "not being NVC". Rachelle urges us to notice how this view of NVC can be seductive, and even dangerous. In this article, she explains how we can expand our compassionate awareness when we go beyond equating NVC with harmony and empathy. She asks us to become more open to noticing others' experiences even if it challenges our personal and collective belief systems -- and especially when it upsets us to consider it.
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- Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
- Duration 10 - 15 minutes
- Date Added 03/2018
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Premium Members
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- Payee Rachelle Lamb
- Points 4
- Multi Trainer Num 1
- Rachelle Lamb
- empathy
- NVC myth
- misconceptions
- questioning NVC culture
- myths
- status quo
- confrontation
- interdependence
- interconnectedness
- responding relationally
- hearing needs
- care for impact
- receptivity
- ineffective NVC
- relationship blocks
- resistance
- hard to hear messages
- social responsibility
- society
- care for the whole
- receiving feedback
- questioning the status quo
- Beginner Skill Level
- Intermediate Skill Level
- Advanced Skill Level
- silent empathy
- NVC & Society
Could our "need for autonomy" be getting in the way of "partnership consciousness" (as NVC is sometimes called). Could "autonomy" also block healthy relationships with not only ourselves and with others, but also with the planet? This article invites us to consider how "autonomy" may colour our NVC practice at the peril of our critical values. Values such as our care for impact, shared responsibility, interdependence, compassion, consideration, and more...
Additional Info
- Skill Level All Skill Levels
- Duration 8 - 12 minutes
- Date Added 01/2018
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Premium Members
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- Payee Rachelle Lamb
- Points 3
- Multi Trainer Num 1
- Rachelle Lamb
- responding relationally
- interconnectedness
- web of life
- partnership
- partnership consciousness
- togetherness
- shared needs
- shared responsibility
- care for impact
- autonomy
- consideration
- silo mentality
- individualism
- closed heart
- questioning NVC
- questioning NVC culture
- NVC myth
- doing NVC vs being NVC
- dominant culture
- status quo
- relationship blocks
- care for the whole
- planetary sustainability
- interdependence
- anthropocentric
- human centered
- questioning the status quo
- Introductory Skill Level
- Beginner Skill Level
- Intermediate Skill Level
- Advanced Skill Level
- All Skill Levels
- selfish
- attachment
- NVC & Society