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Library Resources with conflict prevention

Why is it so difficult to not take things personally? It's because everything reinforces the sense that whatever is being said is indeed about us – both from without and from within. However, we can get better at not taking things personally with a practice of shifting our focus by being open to multiple interpretations, understanding that our reaction is about our own need, and noticing how the other person’s words, no matter how they sound to us, are an expression of their needs. We can then be more present and available to navigate the situation.

Additional Info

  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 12 - 18 minutes
  • Production Date 02/2013
  • Premium Members

    N/A

  • Payee BayNVC
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles

Dialogue is a life-changing, heart-opening experience. It’s collaboration instead of compromise. Join Miki Kashtan for a practical, step-by-step framework to help you understand how a community develops, how to maintain or repair a community, and how this unique process creatively supports you and each member of your community in getting things done.

Additional Info

  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 5 - 7 hours
  • Production Date 12/07/2021
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Payee BayNVC
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Audio

Trainer Tip: Discovering the unmet needs is only a starting point. The other part is to understand what it will take to meet that need, and make a request that will accomplish this. This way, we can resolve situations before they escalate. Everyone benefits when we are clear about what we would like.

Additional Info

  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Production Date 10/2005
  • Premium Members

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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Trainer Tips

 Struggling to navigate needs between the vaccinated and unvaccinated during the COVID-19 pandemic? How can we disagree and still understand each other? Listen in as a participant engages with Miki about her struggle to choreograph people's divergent needs around vaccines, and enjoy Miki's tip for reflecting back understanding when we disagree!

Additional Info

  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 00:14 minutes
  • Production Date 2/5/2022
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Payee BayNVC
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Video