Is NVC Always, in the End, “Just One-on-One”?
Trainer Tip
3-5 minutes
Ask the Trainer: "Can you share stories of transforming group conflict, or is NVC strictly intended for 'one-on-one' work?"
Different Types of Requests
Trainer Tip
2 - 3 minutes
Ask the Trainer: "Could you share a list of types of requests, with examples of each and a possible strategy for formulating requests in conversation?"
Hidden Needs
Trainer Tip
2 - 3 minutes
Ask the Trainer: "I've been feeling frustrated and angry quite a bit lately over very simple things. Can you help me get to the root of my hidden needs?"
The Unconscious Mind Compared to the Conscious Mind
The Unconscious Mind Compared to the Conscious Mind
The Unconscious Mind Compared to the Conscious Mind
Trainer Tip
2 - 3 minutes
Ask the Trainer: "I have the understanding that the unconscious is vast compared to conscious mind. When I state 'needs' how well can I depend on there being something beneath my awareness that is actually the motivation?"
Teachers Expressing to Students and Colleagues
Trainer Tip
3 - 5 minutes
Ask the Trainer: "I just started teaching in a public school and I'm not enjoying the violence that teachers express towards children and their colleagues. However, when I talk about NVC, most people listen but I feel they're either not understanding it or ..."
The Needs Underneath a Need for “Fairness”
Trainer Tip
2 - 3 minutes
Ask the Trainer: "I'm practicing with 'transforming the pain of unmet needs into the beauty of the need.' In identifying my unmet needs, I come up with 'fairness.' However, fairness isn't on the needs list! I'm wondering what needs might be underneath 'fairness.'"
Confidentiality Agreement
Trainer Tip
4 - 6 minutes
Ask the Trainer: "A participant in our beginners' NVC practice group asked the co-facilitators if there was a confidentiality agreement that was typically used in NVC practice groups?"
Naturalizing NVC Language Series: Holding the Group's Needs
Naturalizing NVC Language Series: Holding the Group's Needs
Naturalizing NVC Language Series: Holding the Group's Needs
Video
2 minutes
CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan shares a tip on holding a group's needs while empathizing with a single person in the group.
Naturalizing NVC Language Series: Empathy vs. Sympathy
Naturalizing NVC Language Series: Empathy vs. Sympathy
Naturalizing NVC Language Series: Empathy vs. Sympathy
Video
3 minutes
CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan clarifies the distinction between empathy and sympathy.
Naturalizing NVC Language Series: Developing Empathic Presence
Naturalizing NVC Language Series: Developing Empathic Presence
Naturalizing NVC Language Series: Developing Empathic Presence
Video
4 minutes
CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan guides a participant to find his inner empathic presence.