Library Resources with silent empathy

Listen to CNVC Certified Trainer Dian Killian guide and ease you into a more natural expression of empathy. This is a three person exercise. Listen in and then give it a try!

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 30 minutes
  • Production Date 2/26/2020
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  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Practice Exercises

Trainer Tip: When someone is unresponsive it can be an opportunity to bring in more presence and connection through empathy. They may be worried that if they speak they'll say something they'll regret. Or they may want to know that their needs matters as much as yours. They may also need more space to clarify their thoughts.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Production Date 10/2005
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  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Trainer Tips

Getting "feel good" empathy can become an addiction. Even to the point of seeing people who don't offer empathy as "not being NVC". Rachelle urges us to notice how this view of NVC can be seductive, and even dangerous. In this article, she explains how we can expand our compassionate awareness when we go beyond equating NVC with harmony and empathy. She asks us to become more open to noticing others' experiences even if it challenges our personal and collective belief systems -- and especially when it upsets us to consider it.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 10 - 15 minutes
  • Production Date 03/2018
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  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles

Trainer Tip: Silent empathy can be a powerful way of contributing to someone's life, giving them the gift of our presence.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Production Date 11/16/2005
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  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Trainer Tips

When Rita first learned about silent empathy she didn't know how soon she'd try it out. She was visiting her daughter and making comments about her life, analyzing her behavior, giving her unsolicited view on everything.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 page
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles

Jim and Jori offer a tip to stay present in the face of our reactivity to witnessed conflict.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1-2 minutes
  • Production Date 09/13/2013
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  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Trainer Tips

Can you give me advice on what to do when people won't talk to me? I find it very difficult to discover what their needs are that aren't being met! Also, how can I be effective with people who don't actually want to think about why they're being the way they are?

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1-2 minutes
  • Production Date 05/20/2005
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  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Trainer Tips
 
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