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Sometimes even a very skilled empathy practicitioner can go into offering a non-empathic response, even when asked for empathy. Why? One reason could be that our brains might be less receptive because of unseen forces that affect our brain and relationship with others. This article speaks to the deeper "why" and also to one thing we could do to turn it around...
Additional Info
- Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
- Duration 3 - 5 minutes
- Date Added 10/2018
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Premium Members
N/A
- Payee Sarah Peyton
- Points 1
- Multi Trainer Num 1
- Advanced Skill Level
- Beginner Skill Level
- Intermediate Skill Level
- self empathy
- self responsibility
- Sarah Peyton
- neuroscience
- neurobiology
- Interpersonal Neurobiology
- blame
- criticism
- implicit memory
- triggers
- ineffective NVC
- reactivity
- shadow
- brain
- unconscious
- subconscious
- projection
- conflict
- evaluation
- diagnosis
- empathy
- emotional pain
For the ultimate romance to unfold, as an expression of your care for how your words and actions affect others, prioritize digging into your inner work before addressing conflict with them. This means doing the inner work necessary to get to the root of the issue, which can bring bigger shifts, more aliveness, love, creativity, inspiration and compassion. This doesn't mean letting the other person get away with unhealthy behaviour.
Additional Info
- Skill Level All Skill Levels
- Duration 6 - 9 minutes
- Date Added 01/2018
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Premium Members
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- Payee Eric Bowers
- Points 2
- Multi Trainer Num 1
- inner work
- subconscious
- blindspots
- triggers
- Eric Bowers
- unconscious
- blocks to connection
- boundaries
- blame
- humility
- conflict
- open hearted
- love
- resistance
- couples
- primary relationship
- Introductory Skill Level
- Beginner Skill Level
- Intermediate Skill Level
- Advanced Skill Level
- All Skill Levels
- self responsibility
- childhood wounds
- argument
- NVC & Society
What parts of yourself or others are hard to embrace, understand or even notice? What parts do others have difficulty embracing, understanding or noticing? Why do we condemn, loathe, hate, deny, judge, blame or feel shame around certain needs, feelings and parts of self and/or others? This article talks about the hidden parts of ourselves and others that shapes views and behaviours.
Additional Info
- Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
- Duration 4 - 6 minutes
- Date Added 01/2018
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Premium Members
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- Payee Eric Bowers
- Points 2
- Multi Trainer Num 1
What's really going on underneath the surface when we bring or encounter blame, judgements, pain -- and thereby the inability to empathize, be present, attuned, or responsive? Why does this happen even if one or more people in a relationship dynamic is working hard at bringing in an NVC response? This article addresses these and more questions from the perspective of how our brains are affected in our relationships.
Additional Info
- Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
- Duration 4 - 6 minutes
- Date Added 01/2018
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Premium Members
n/a
- Payee Eric Bowers
- Points 1
- Multi Trainer Num 1
- Eric Bowers
- parenting
- Interpersonal Neurobiology
- attachment
- Attachment Theory
- attachment parenting
- brain
- unconscious
- ineffective NVC
- triggers
- blocks to connection
- emotional safety
- self regulation
- connect before correct
- relationship building
- trauma
- family conflict
- conflict
- fight/flight/freeze
- emotional regulation
Sometimes there are moments when empathy has no effect at all on one another. Why? One reason could be that our brains might be less receptive because of unseen forces that affect our nervous system and relationship with others.
Additional Info
- Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
- Duration 10 - 15 minutes
- Date Added 11/2017
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Premium Members
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- Payee Sarah Peyton
- Points 2
- Multi Trainer Num 1
- projection
- subconscious
- unconscious
- invalidating
- minimizing
- trivalizing
- brain
- shadow
- reactivity
- ineffective NVC
- ineffective empathy
- triggers
- implicit memory
- receptivity
- receptive
- criticism
- blame
- stress
- Interpersonal Neurobiology
- nervous system
- neurobiology
- neuroscience
- Sarah Peyton
- self responsibility
- self empathy
- Intermediate Skill Level
- Beginner Skill Level
- Advanced Skill Level
- demands
- defensive
Sometimes there are moments when empathy has no effect at all on one another. Why? One reason could be that our brains maybe less receptive because of unseen forces that affect our nervous system and relationship to others...
Additional Info
- Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
- Duration 3 - 5 minutes
- Date Added 10/20/2017
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Premium Members
n/a
- Payee Sarah Peyton
- Points 2
- Multi Trainer Num 1
- Sarah Peyton
- neuroscience
- neurobiology
- nervous system
- Interpersonal Neurobiology
- stress
- blame
- criticism
- receptive
- receptivity
- implicit memory
- triggers
- ineffective empathy
- ineffective NVC
- reactivity
- shadow
- brain
- self empathy
- self responsibility
- trivalizing
- minimizing
- invalidating
- unconscious
- subconscious
- projection
- demands
- defensive