Control as a Need
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
Trainer Tip: "I often hear people say that someone did something because of a need for control. Control is actually a strategy that is often confused with a need."
The Unconscious Mind Compared to the Conscious Mind
The Unconscious Mind Compared to the Conscious Mind
The Unconscious Mind Compared to the Conscious Mind
Trainer Tip
2 - 3 minutes
Ask the Trainer: "I have the understanding that the unconscious is vast compared to conscious mind. When I state 'needs' how well can I depend on there being something beneath my awareness that is actually the motivation?"
The Needs Underneath a Need for “Fairness”
Trainer Tip
2 - 3 minutes
Ask the Trainer: "I'm practicing with 'transforming the pain of unmet needs into the beauty of the need.' In identifying my unmet needs, I come up with 'fairness.' However, fairness isn't on the needs list! I'm wondering what needs might be underneath 'fairness.'"
Confidentiality Agreement
Trainer Tip
4 - 6 minutes
Ask the Trainer: "A participant in our beginners' NVC practice group asked the co-facilitators if there was a confidentiality agreement that was typically used in NVC practice groups?"
Distinguishing Universal Needs from Strategies
Trainer Tip
10 - 15 minutes
In this book excerpt, Kathleen and Jared offer a path to reach deeper clarity, distinguishing between universal needs and strategies.
Hear the Needs
Video
27 minutes
This is a documentary of the use of Nonviolent Communication at Euclid High School, Ohio, in a history class with a teacher practicing NVC accompanied by CNVC Certified Trainer Catherine Cadden. Remastered in February 2019 to reduce ambient noise.
Personal Breakthroughs in Nonviolent Communication: Identifying Needs
Personal Breakthroughs in Nonviolent Communication: Identifying Needs
Personal Breakthroughs in Nonviolent Communication: Identifying Needs
Video
3 minutes
What are the qualities you value in your relationships? Mary teaches the NVC concept of needs to a group of people new to NVC, using a clever method she learned from Holly Eckert, a CNVC Certified Trainer in Seattle, Washington, USA.
Principles of Nonviolent Communication: Identifying Needs
Principles of Nonviolent Communication: Identifying Needs
Principles of Nonviolent Communication: Identifying Needs
Video
54 minutes
Let this inspiring video guide you through exercises as if you are actually present at the workshop with Mary Mackenzie! The video opens with Mary leading you through an exercise that generates a physical experience of the NVC consciousness.
Beyond Right and Wrong
Video
1 hour, 4 minutes
In this vintage NVC video, Bridget Belgrave, CNVC Certified Trainer from the United Kingdom, uses a Powerpoint presentation to demonstrate the key principles of Nonviolent Communication. Starting with needs at the center, Bridget builds a visual structure of the NVC process. This resource has been newly remastered to a larger, higher quality video.
NVC Tools: Observations, Feelings, Needs and Requests
NVC Tools: Observations, Feelings, Needs and Requests
NVC Tools: Observations, Feelings, Needs and Requests
Video
28 minutes
In this introduction to Nonviolent Communication (NVC), Wes Taylor discusses the two basic aspects of NVC, the consciousness and the tools that help manifest the consciousness.