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Kimberly Clark
What a treat in 1979 to attend a national Mental Health meeting and come across about the only inspiring guy in the place. The Mayor of Fayetteville Arkansas and I decided to go listen in. Hearing Marshall's music was our ticket to a new way of thinking and living. I well remember him driving around the country in his little red car, Honoring the life of no and sharing a dream for peace, compassion and joy. As we were beginning the public access television station in Fayetteville. he was one of our first guests. What a difference a few decades make. Now we have friends living NVC all over the world and so to you Marshall, Thanks a million. keep those songs coming. and remember "I just called to say love you. I just called to say how much I care. I just called to say I love you and I meant it from the bottom of my heart."
Diana
After 9/11/2001 happened, I tried to understand why our "diplomacy" and problem solving methods were NOT working. I tried to find what books diplomats used during their training. I was astonished at what I did NOT find........BUT, I found Marshall Rosenberg's work. To say that it is impressive is a HUGE understatement. As a nurse for over thirty years, I use his techniques and refer my students directly to his work. I attend NVC meetings myself. I only regret not learning about his work sooner! THANK YOU, Marshall! The extent of your contribution is immeasurable!
Dhira Crunkilton
Marshall touches my life weekly, as I teach Nonviolent Communication to college students. I have been doing this for 4 years, teaching a full semester course twice a year, as part of my job as a college professor. It is not possible to have the joy of empowering young people with NVC, without feeling gratitude to Marshall. I feel gratitude weekly, and regularly share my gratitude with students and others ... and appreciate this forum to be able to possibly share this with Marshall. Yes, I met Marshall a few times in an IIT and other trainings, but his amazing gifts stay with me as I have the fortune to contribute to the inconceivably wonderful mission he started.
Susan Sullivan
My husband and I settled down to watch our first NVC video, and there was Marshall, playing is guitar, using simple, elegant language to describe a different way to speak with each other. What has become part of our lives, and which I will never forget is when he said "you can be right....or you can have a good life"
Satya
In 2007, while going through a difficult and painful divorce, a family friend gave me a CD. On it, I heard Marshall working with couples (in an IIT, I believe). It was amazing to me; to hear him so simply and effectively and lovingly unwind the couple's angst and mis-communication. I didn't know exactly how he had done it, but I knew I wanted to learn how - right away. Six years and much work, training and growth later, I am happy. I am in a happy, supportive, loving and sharing relationship. We now lead small couple's workshops that are full and with waiting lists! Life is opening up, and work is meaningful. There's more to learn, more to open to, more to experience! How great! So thank you Marshall. You've been a tremendous light in my life. I hope to give back in ways I don't even know about. Aloha, Ken
Doris Ehrler
I did not have the honor to meet Marshall in person, but I feel very fortunate to have come across these tools in 2008. NVC offers exactly what I was looking for after publishing a book about our innate goodness. I'm happy to say that NVC helped me to maintain a close and empathic relationship with my friends and family throughout challenging times. But most of all, it has given me a way to honor my deepest values, recognize my intentions, and find self-compassion whenever necessary. After studying at least a dozen self-help and healing modalities this is unquestionably the one thing I wish I could have learned at an earlier point. Thank you so much Marshall for sticking your giraffe neck out all these years in order to share your insights! You helped me to meet my need for personal growth, making meaningful contributions as a facilitator, and find hope for of our global community.
Soraya Deen
Dear Marshall; Thank you for your contribution to light up the dark corners of the human soul and the world. You are a magnificent part of me... I learn and grow everyday...you have shown us a path that can transform our lives. I would love to connect with you, (we met at an IIT in Santa Barbara) several years ago.... I hope you are doing well and so is Valentina... We are grateful for you, always Peace and Blessings Soraya
Petra Pfitzner
Dear Marshall, unfortunately I did not meet you when you came to Germany. I have been listening to your CDs and so I know your voice very well. I have been learning NVC in the north of Germany where I live and I already started to have a practice group in my little home town. NVC has become a very important part of my life. When I think of you I can hear your voice saying "get people connected on the heart level". I love that. And that is what I go for. You are always in my heart Marshall and I cannot find enough words to thank you.
Maria Schmitz
My experience with Marshall was years ago in Frankfurt. I was there with my then 20-year-old son. We were both very impressed. What impresses me is his gentleness. He never seems to raise his voice. And, of course, what I admire him for is all the conflicts he has been able to solve all over the world and the short time it requires (3 hours). Maria Schmitz
Aileen McKenna
I first met Marshall when I was studying at Webster University in Geneva Switzerland in 1988-89. Our psychology professor, Barry Childers brought Marshall to do a one-day workshop with us. I was mesmerized by this man who could approach conflict in such a simple manner, and of course his guitar playing and puppets. I felt that I had been touched by sheer magic in human relations as I had always been overwhelmed when spoken to in ways that were diminishing and I had no way of responding other than to go inside in pain, or to lash out in kind, which I seldom was able to do. I used his approach in several situations when I returned to live in Canada and was working as an internal auditor in a government department exposed to colleagues who would put my 'in my place' by the use of such language. In that gentle way, I would tell them what I felt when spoken to in such a way, and then tell them what I needed. The behavior was never repeated by the same colleagues upon hearing how I was affected by their words. That short class with Marshall transformed my life and provided for me a level of self empowerment that has led me, now many years later, to needing to spread the word, to offer practice groups, coaching and hopefully, before too long, certification as an instructor. Many thanks to you, Marshall, for that beautiful gift presented to an international body of students in the small library at WUG all those years ago. With much love and respect, Aileen McKenna
Dana Nellen
Dear Marshall, Your work has been a life line for me the last 5 years. Although I'm still unable to be conversant when I am fully triggered, I remember your teachings and continue to study and do my best. I feel hopeful, peaceful and connected when I meet with NVC people. NVC meets my need for connection, safety, honesty and meaning. My hope is that soon NVC can be a part of every child's early education on up and that I may be a vessel for your work. You are my hero!
Sherry Hansen
Before I met Marshall, I didn't even know whether I was experiencing a thought or a feeling. I didn't know about needs let alone how to connect with them. I always wanted to be compassionate and present and Marshall has helped me discover that space. My life is basically divided into two parts: The time "Before NVC" and my new life since I "Discovered NVC."
Carlos Avila Pizzuto
My life hasn’t been the same after reading the NVC book. I’m a psychologist and Marshall has helped many people to be better understood and respected by me. Meeting Marshall in Albuquerque was very exciting and fun experience then gave my life a new commitment to living my life connected with others without losing connection to me.
Catherine Cadden
Another amazing moment for me with Marshall was after my dear mentor Julie Greene died. I had the extreme fortune to work with Julie during her last BayNVC retreat before passing. Many who were there might remember the energy of "why wait one more minute?", and her becoming very clear on her final requests of people. When I was hugging her goodbye, which we both knew would be for the last time, she said she had a couple requests for me. One of them was spoken to me this way, "Will you tell Marshall that I love him? You will see him before I do. I want you to deliver the message to him because I think you live from your heart. I think he still sometimes gets in his head too much so I want you tell him from your heart. You can tell him I said that, too." The next time I caught up with Marshall was at a BayNVC event in Oakland. I went to deliver the message. I caught Marshall before things began. The room was full of people busy chatting with one another. Marshall and someone had just finished speaking about something and I walked up to him and said, "I have a message for you from Julie Greene." Marshall turned, looked me in the eye, giving me his full attention. I shared the Julie's message that way she had told it to me. He smiled with tears in his eyes giving his little chuckle and wag of the head. We hugged and someone came up to support him getting to the stage on time. One of the great teachings I have received from Marshall is one of the things I find awe inspiring about him - his ability to be fully present in the midst of chaos and turn towards what's most alive in the space. Thank you Julie for the honor to walk with you, learn from you, and deliver your message of love. Thank you Marshall for teaching me how to receive love.
Selene Aitken
I remember the time in 1996 when I heard Marshall say he believed everyone's needs could be met. Everyone on the planet! I was stunned. I believed him. I still do. That’s why NVC gives me hope.
Marion G.
When I first saw Marshall and listened to him in Frankfurt, it felt so deeply like finally coming home. I never got off the hook ever since and thank Marshall from the bottom of my heart for helping me live the life worth living. The world needs NVC so badly and I intend to make my contribution in fulfilling this need... Love, Marion
Kate Raffin
OOOOh there are so many moments !! I was walking through my lounge room to have a bath and the TV was on - I caught a glimpse of some news of the kind that I had tried to block out over many years - it was about the slaughter of many seals on an island here in Australia. It was believed to be fishermen who were "killing off " the threat to their fish socks. It was a gruesome story - the methods used etc. I doubled over in pain as I stumbled towards the bath and got in it and felt like I was going to fill the bath with my tears - full and over the edge. What could hold my pain and despair? As I watched as my pain try SO desperately to express itself through ideas of hatred and revenge and then magically, I began to watch my heart unfold into REAL pain. I wanted these people to be understood, heard and most of all to hear their own pain for what motivated them to do what they did and then get support to look for other ways to meet their needs for contribution, sustenance and support. (What I guessed they were wanting) The mourning I touched was SO deep with SO much permission. I directly connect this shift in my heart to Marshall's many stories of working with people who are in prison and have done things motivated by their own pain and history. I had been looking for this response - how else can I respond besides wanting cold blooded revenge? This was about 7 years ago after first meeting Marshall in New Zealand and just seeing the shift in my heart's response has fuelled the possibility in supporting others to do this daily. I am now an almost certified trainer. Blessings to Marshall and ALL the folk who supported him and his work to get to me and continue to be so powerful.
Loretta Rowe
As a licensed professional counselor, for several years I had worked endlessly to put together a program on anger management. I had amassed pages and pages of handouts, power point slides and all sorts of props. Then I discovered and listened to "Speaking Peace" and was awed to find Marshall Rosenberg so clearly and concisely said everything and more that I was struggling to comprehend and express. Since that time, I have read almost every NVC related publication, have attended numerous trainings (with my husband and friends) including one when Marshall came to Richmond, and I routinely buy ten or more copies of "Nonviolent Communication" and some of the other NVC publications which I lend to my clients and restock when the last one fails to come back. What I have learned from Marshall has transformed my life and my practice and I am filled with appreciation for him and his work.
Leslie Ritter-Jenkin
I experienced Marshall's tenderness when I first attended an "NVC trainer's teaching practice" seminar. I came as one just barely familiar with NVC, as a student to ask questions of the trainers. In the course of several days, one of the trainers asked for a separate group for learning, I felt hurt and confused but couldn't connect my feelings to needs. I was holding on to an idea that we all should be able to learn from each other, without such separate groups. I had tears in my eyes. Marshall asked if I was wondering if my presence was of value to others in the group and did I hope for integrity in the teaching and living of NVC? Yes, it was about both. Whatever happens in the complex circuitry of mind, body and spirit during empathy, I felt it maybe for the first time in my life. In a sentence or two, Marshall had integrated my faith tradition, family systems thinking, and all the psychology I had learned from parenting books. And then I started having fun! Later in the seminar I remember Marshall role playing the spouse of a man who would turn to physical violence very quickly. Marshall put his hand over his head when he was self connecting and the jackal would take center stage and then give life to life-giving words. I was relieved, this man was transparent and I trusted him. That was the beginning.
Maire O Sullivan
SO grateful for the opportunity to express my deepest gratitude to Marshall. Discovering NVC brought me joy and empowerment in the aftermath of a very difficult divorce. At A European NVC gathering in Findhorn in 2006, I was deeply touched when Marshall led us in singing "caw caw caw". The memory of this still brings tears to my eyes; something deep is touched around an old sense of being voiceless or silenced. At the end of the same gathering, as the microphone was passed around for us to express our celebrations, I missed it a few times. Marshall looked straight at me and said "tell her you want it". I am still touched when I remember this; there were about 250 people there.
Elaine K. Harding
I jumped into NVC through reading the BOOK and then attending a 10-day intensive with Marshall several years ago. I think it will take me several more years to fully comprehend the impact that those 10 days had on my being, and on my life. In those precious few days back in 2009, I began truly connecting with my deepest longings and harshest judgments. Both of these have served as ongoing gifts in my life journey. What I remember most clearly about Marshall was his presence. How he was not only present for himself, but also present for what was all around him. And of course, who can forget his quick wit and self-deprecating jokes! I feel that Marshall deserves the Nobel Peace Prize for his enduring and life-changing contribution to our unfolding evolution of humanity.
Jane Reinoso
Dear Marshall,
Mere words cannot express how much you have contributed to my well being, my sense of self and the well being of those with whom I have daily contact. I saw your introductory workshop on DVD with a group of people in a tiny town in Maine and my life has never been the same since then. For so many years since that time I wished I could meet you in person to tell you how grateful I am for changing my life--for showing me a way without blame or punishment, without having to feel bad about how I had been up until then. I continue to grow into this new consciousness and I move slowly toward my dream of making it my life’s work to bring it to others. Last summer I wrote a song, which I titled “Let It Go”, which is steeped with NVC consciousness. It’s the first song I have ever written and without NVC I probably never would have believed in myself enough to try to write a song. Maybe someday if we ever do meet, I can sing it for you.
Shoshana Wheeler
I would love to express my profound gratitude to Marshall for developing a process of communication that gave me my voice. Growing up in a family where my older sister was very vocal about her wants, needs and opinions, and how that wasn't always received with great joy by my parents, I learned quickly not to reveal myself, speak up, or express my opinion. Ten years ago when I was first introduced to Marshall and NVC at a Santa Barbara workshop, I finally found a process that would allow me to express myself honestly and safely. WHAT A BLESSING. I am forever grateful for this huge contribution to my life. So much love and gratitude to you Marshall, Shoshana Wheeler
Carrie McGregor
Dear Mr. Rosenberg, What has inspired me most about NVC is that I can be fully human, make mistakes, have less than ideal thoughts and feelings, but still reach out from the depths of who I am, the part that is perfect, and try to make a connection with another. Even when I was a child, I knew there must be a way to communicate with peace and hope and good intentions, while still being imperfect. I knew that if we could just figure out a way to talk with our deepest intentions, we could resolve conflict peacefully. I felt alone with this knowledge, and had no idea how to manifest it, until I learned of NVC. I am still a beginner, but I use it every day. Those closest to me are reaping the rewards. NVC is the most effective and practical tool I have, and I think you must be a genius. Thank you, sir. Carrie McGregor
Patrick Schwarz
Dear Marshall and everyone else who reads this :) I am very grateful for having found NC, because it helped me reconnect to what I really want from life and get me back on track with my dreams. When I discovered, after I left university, how I can access my feelings again, the whole idea shifted from an intellectual understanding to a more intuitive one and I really understood many of the ideas on a deeper level. I was so impressed because the whole idea gave me so much hope and prospect to not only understand other people but really connect with them on a more authentic level. I feel so relieved having found NVC, because I was able to find myself and my own preferences again and it still helps me in my everyday practice in contact with basically everyone. In the beginning I thought, that once you know the 4 steps and the idea behind NVC, you just need to practice the steps to become very compassionate. Now, I believe that NVC has still much more for me to offer and I am excited about everything that still hits me by surprise :) after all NVC is a living process for me that has different meanings in different contexts and I am curious what I can still learn, which aspects I probably didn’t consider yet and how it can still change the way I look on things. Thank you for enabling all that, I feel so much more alive than I did before knowing NVC, because I also have much more trust and am less scared to look inside me and figure out what I find there :) thank you.
Katie
Last year my daughter had a psychotic episode which was precipitated by sleep deprivation, demands put on her by a disorganized, unempathetic university system, a lovely but damaged boyfriend, and constant low level anxiety. The professionals administered medication without monitoring or therapy which my daughter refused to take. I realized that if I could control my panic, as I knew her story better than most, then I stood some chance of helping her. I came across your book and NVC made complete sense to me. Our family philosophy had been about putting others first and yet never recognized that we needed to look after ourselves to be strong enough to help others. Life brings constant conflict and this was acute in our family because of the multi-cultural nature of it. Your book and another 'Back to Sanity' by Steve Taylor (with similar thinking to your own), gave me confidence that I can live the rest of my life to the full as I now understand that as long as we know which direction we are heading then enjoying the journey is good enough. Connecting with that truth generates the most amazing feeling in spite of what is going on around me and with practice can be sustainable. My daughter's illness was an extreme manifestation of what I believe is endemic in our society. Labelling, and the fear of being differ is preventing society from recognizing the full enormity of this problem. NVC provides a great deal of optimism and a solution which leads the way forward to creating a happier world. With the strength inside us and with mindfulness, it is possible to find a truly contented life which can work in harmony with all those around us. Please accept my warmest regards and appreciation, p.s. I wondered if you have any writings on the anthropological research that helped you formulate your thinking on NVC - I hope one day they will be published as I would love to read it.
Nancy Soans
Thank you Marshall for believing in me before you ever knew me and before I even knew how to believe in myself. I am so touched with your compassion and the care you dedicated to our "Language of Life" and the consciousness that keeps my tools in action. I used to think I was elated or happy, I now know it is because my needs for fun, play, purpose, intimacy, belonging and contribution are being met. I used to think I was "pissed off" at someone. I now know it is because my needs for consideration, respect, appreciation or acknowledgement are probably not being met. I used to think that person was a total jerk, and now I mine a little deeper, what might they be needing? I used to think enjoying a sense of freedom was from my neck up. I now feel the joy of freedom from my neck down...like a magical fairy dust swirling around my heart and entire body...a liberated lightness. My daughters used to telephone me to say hello. Now my daughter’s telephone for an authentic heart to heart connection on a deeper level than I would ever have been able to offer them before discovering your giving heart. Thank you from all of us.
Amelie Yan Gouiffes
I feel very moved by the opportunity to share some words and very grateful to Marshall Rosenberg, to NVC facilitators , practitioners for the transformation you brought into my life, revolution, healing, beauty - one day I received an email about NVC course, I barely read the email and I just registered out of intuition - 3 days only and my life changed. so many emotions during these three days, I cried , felt sad, upset, forgiving, joyful, excited and healed. 5 days after the course, my 4 years-old son came very sweet to me and said: Mum, I am feeling a little nervous, I think I need to watch a DVD to relax, would you be OK to put a cartoon for me on the TV? he is now 8 years old and we discuss about values, about feelings, needs and we work on making requests. He is quite a thorough "NVCkeeper", when I make a demand, when I am not connecting with his and/or my needs , I have a big NO in front of me and have no choice but going back to NVC principles. Right now, when writing this, I am feeling blissed, full of love, overwhelmed by immense gratitude. Marshall Rosenberg, I was wondering what I would do if you were in front of me right now, a big hug? a loud thank you? No, I think I would put my hands on the heart in Namaste position, I would enjoy the bloom in the heart out of love, the tears in my eyes out of gratitude , and I would break the silence only to tell you : Atma Namaste.
Afsaneh
Thank you Marshall. You freed me from blaming others for my unhappiness, anger, or frustration. Understanding my needs and the external triggers have altered my life from turmoil, worry, anxiety, isolation to unconditional peace, love, and kindness for humanity.
Lorena Pinto
Dearest Marshall: I am Lorena Pinto from Costa Rica and met you in the IIT in New Mexico en 2006. I went with the support of the Rasur Foundation and the Academy for Peace of Costa Rica. The IIT was one of the 2 most transformational events of my life. Through your teachings I was able to progressively gain awareness and wisdom to manage my life. I really believe they have saved my life... Your gentle ways, your meaningful unique humor and music, the simplicity of communicating it and the practicability of the method, altogether makes it a powerful tool for managing the conditioned mind... and this tools are fundamental in building peace...I do not see it happening otherwise. May God keep you whole, graceful and in peace. Forever in gratitude and admiration for your invaluable work. With the warmest memories for you and Valentina, Lorena
James Warren
I am in my 60s now and well into my 50s I was still struggling, although trying to educate myself in NVC and other self-help sources. I am finally free thanks to Marshall's kind and guiding voice online. I have finally learned how to have a happy childhood. I am writing this to thank Marshall and also ALL THE OTHER COMMENTERS HERE. You people really make me happy and further my journey. I can finally give voice to my optimism about being present during an evolutionary leap in human culture.... That's how much I have learned about nonviolent communication and its inevitable consequences. If all of us grow up surrounded by love, caring, fairness and respect we will continue to learn and pass on the positive in NVC to ourselves and beyond to everyone we meet. I thank God for Marshall's vision and work here. He is a treasure of a human being and his words penetrate my soul like a lovely spring rain.
Christina Onofrei
I'm from Romania - a country in SE Europe. I'm a teacher and a parent of 3 grown up wonderful girls. My first contact with NVC was last year in April when I participated at an international conference. It was the revelation of my life: I had the feeling that I found what I've been searching for all my life! After the conference I bought all the books that I could get about NVC and read them and studied them. I ordered more books that I could not get in my country, from international sites. Understanding better the NVC principles and starting to work on them, was a life change for me. I started to share about it to my children and I'm working on making them real in my relationship with my husband. Making the NVC principles part of my life, gave me power to move on, and a purpose to live for. It is a real life enrichment to know how to express compassion and empathy, how to understand yourself and the fellow next to you. It stops judging people and it opens the door to empathy. I have started to share the principles with other people than my family. I thank God for giving Marshall the vision of these principles and that he shared them with the whole world!
Amy McQuillan
I am grateful every day for the gift NVC has been in my life, and that I have had the privilege of learning from so many trainers, and from Marshall himself. One small event that I think I will always remember is a day in 2007 when I haltingly expressed distress, frustration and sadness at watching hours of conflict within a group. Marshall turned to me and spoke in a stern voice, head lowered so that he peered at me through his eyebrows, "You need to learn to interrupt in giraffe." I remember these words often. I still need to learn it, but little by little I'm getting there! Thank you, Marshall, for that and for so many other moments. I think of you and Valentina often, and wish you love, peace and well-being.
Marian Moore
Hello Marshall - Lane and I met you about 45 years ago in St. Louis. Since then we have had many opportunities to share with others the insights you shared with us over the years. What a difference you have made in our lives! Thinking and using NVC has not only helped me communicate with friends and people I work with, but it certainly has changed the way I think! We've also loved having you as a friend - in St. Louis, in Texas, in California and other places where workshops and meetings took place. We appreciate your wisdom and your sense of humor! We hope you are doing well, and send greetings and best wishes!
Alison
I am deeply touched by NVC It has changed my entire outlook and way of being NVC is a place where spirituality can find practical application and we can learn to re-pattern the pathways of our brain to respond compassionately. Blessings to you Mr. Rosenberg for being willing to be an instrument of Peace on this planet.
Jenny
Marshall. I so appreciate the simplicity and wonderful depth of your approach to communication. I learnt about NVC only over the last two years and so far I haven't done any formal training but I have been able to use my rudimentary skills on both a personal and a professional level. So appreciate that your wonderful ability to connect has touched my life. With heartfelt thanks Jenny
Jacques Gauvreau
Marshall is the embodiment of John Lennon's Working Class Hero philosophy. Marshall lives and breathes compassion in the real world. I wish him the best of health in his endeavor to appease the egotism in the world.
Eliane Geren
Dear Marshall, Yes, the first homemade video I watched of you giving a workshop woke me up to the possibility of a better way to communicate. Yes, the book you published in 1999, made me cry and laugh because I connected with the dream of what you shared. And . . . There are three specific things I remember in personal interactions with you that continue to enrich my life today: 1.) I went to a training for trainers near Chicago in 2003 and at one point I was expressing something to another participant in the circle. You interrupted and said something like: "You are expressing your thoughts aloud and you are TAKING PEOPLE'S LIVES. Would you just get to the essence of what you mean to convey?" I'd never been labeled as a person who talks too much and at first I was shocked. However, I've never forgotten. And, I realize that most people haven't learned how to interrupt as effectively as you have and so, I aim to share my feelings and needs in succinct ways that connect. 2.) I was sitting in a van with you in NYC and I was telling you about my husband who'd done "something" that bothered me. You asked, "And why is that a problem?" Again, you didn't express in classical Giraffe, but I got it. In other words, if I saw and heard my husband through the lens of feelings and needs, what could be the problem? This reminder has served me a lot since then. 3.) At another training, you said, "My needs will be met until everyone's needs are met." That struck a deep chord in me and I felt a sense of companionship I hadn't felt before about that concept. Much Love, Eliane (Geren)
Natalie J Robinson
I integrate NVC ideas as I teach educators about sustainable pedagogy and ways to integrate sustainability (social justice, decolonization and ecoliteracy) across their curricula. I'd love to connect with others using NVC in education. Thanks Marshall! Natalie Joan Robinson MA Environmental Education and Communication
Marina J Rose
Marshall, I remember reading your book in 1996 and thinking, "Wow, communicating that way makes sense. OK, I'll do it." Hahaha! Then I learned how challenging it was for me to change cultural habits. I thought, "Marshall must be a saint!" But when I attended workshops with you at Lake Merritt what I really saw was your humanity. Seeing you make a mistake and then bring your experience of that into the workshop was very inspiring. Hearing you express that NVC is something you are constantly growing into helped me feel hopeful about making progress in my skill level. You inspired me to lead an NVC group while I was learning instead of waiting still I "mastered it". It's very satisfying to know that some of the people in my group continued on to NVC Leadership Programs and have led their own NVC study groups. Two things I'm grateful for that NVC has brought into my life: The skills I learned are an important part of my health care practice in California. And I love the depth of connection I experience with my empathy buddy of 7 years. Thank you! Marina J. Rose
Marian Moore
Marshall, we have known each other for more than 40 years and my life has been enriched because of your work. I believe that over time the world will become a safer and more enlightened place to be because of your insight. I am fond of saying trust the process when I think of your work meaning I try not to focus too much on changing groups or systems but rather spreading the word as my primary want. If we can live another 40 years or so I can imagine organizations and individuals "speaking" NVC naturally without thinking about it. Marshall--do you recall the week end workshop in St. Louis that Marian and I attended? You videotaped the participants trying to learn 'feelings and wants". Marian and I got into a big fight on the way home from the first session :-)) we argued over Judgments. Well, I miss you!! Maybe our paths will cross again. Shalom, Lane
Susan
I don't remember how I was introduced to NVC, but I remember being blown away by it. I thought, "This is the way to world peace. As a reality. Not a crazy concept." I remember once talking to a man who had been labeled "schizophrenic," and when I relayed back what I thought were his feelings and needs, he blurted that I was psychic. Which I am not, but it seemed that I definitely connected. I have been amazed by the look on peoples' faces when they've felt heard. I've been amazed by my own feelings of gratitude and relief (and other good feelings) when I've felt heard. Considering connection is what everyone is after, it's wonderful to have a tool to achieve it. It's really love. I am so grateful for Marshall and his work, to allow us the tools to access what is so important to each of us.
Elly van Laar
At the IIT 2008 Marshall asked participants to put their name in a hat if they wanted to have a healing session with him and Valentina. My name was drawn. It was an amazing session. I talked about my crippled and disfigured sister who died after three days, when I was two years old. He spoke as her, and expressed his appreciation for the care I had always had for her, my efforts to include her in our family, and to acknowledge her existence and death. I sobbed for the whole session. Something magical happened: I could see my sister Suzanne in and around him. Not as an actual person, but as a physical energy, a light that emanated around him. I could see him as Marshall and Suzanne at the same time, the same and different. And for the first time in my life I saw her as a beautiful grown-up woman, strong and radiant, instead of the disfigured child I knew she had been. She was at peace, touched and happy. She was and is my ever present angel. For that experience alone I will always be grateful. It liberated me from the burden to take care of her, and it allowed me to transform my life and seize opportunities I could not imagine before. Thanks Marshall for sharing your precious compassion, understanding and vulnerability with me. I love you, and wish you well for the remainder of your days.
Maryam Zandi
Dear Marshall I live in Iran .and I learn nvc in Kamran's class. I learned it when my mother died and I was so disappointed. Nvc helped me to start again. I found the best meaning of life by nvc. Of course I know that now I should say about my feeling and my experience. But sorry it's a little difficult for me because my English isn't so good .Just I want to say I found that NVC is the best way of life that I have ever find, I hope I can learn it to my family friends and other people and I like to get some more helps from your team. regards Maryam zandi
Tadesse Hussein
Hi Marshal, In September 2010, i attended the International Intensive Training in Albuquerque in new Mexico. After the training i returned back home to Africa, my life and work became more meaningful. I started practicing and using NVC in my Family, work,on the bus... . 1-My family: When i came back from the IIT, my wife gave birth to a baby boy, we named him Marshall Rosenberg. My daughter firdaus Tadesse is so inspired by NVC. She Joined high school this year and has started sharing NVC with her friends. She wrote on her trunk (school suitcase-Giraffe).I am doing certification program in NVC. 2.Work: I work for One school at a time. We partner with schools in Uganda in the rural ares. I share NVC with 40 teachers, 50 members of school boards. My work is now easier, the output is great and more people are requesting to learn NVC. In May,2012, Joe Bishop from Eastern Michigan University visited Uganda to assess the work of 1 school at a time. He wrote in his report (Tadesse's approach of Nonviolent Communication (NVC) coupled with his personality and his emphasis on relationship building fit well with our approach). Rosemary is a member of Parliament. after sharing with her NVC, she wants to join our practice group which i plan to start in July 2013.She also wants to take NVC to Parliament. There is a lot to share and celebrate, i will continue to post on this page. If we want Peace in the World, lets begin with children. Thank you. Tadesse Hussein
Roz Adams
Marshall, Your work has been a major influence in changing my ability to navigate my life. It has increased my ability to be more gentle with myself and with others. It has inspired me to stretch, to create materials and experiment with ways to bring more compassion and connection to the lives of the people I work with in Glasgow. Thank you. Roz
James Warren
Marshall--I learned from you and NVC that even though we all acknowledge and appreciate the personal growth and social and cultural skills we have learned from you, what seems to deepen this is how we are able to affect others. Nonviolent communication is the essential tool we all need in a global society. If every child is born into a family of acceptance, love, caring and fairness the world will change in response. And nonviolent communication embodies those values. That is why I honor your work, sir!
Alicia Nowicki
When I married into an already made family of 5 children, ages 6-16, and their natural mother was not happy. Soon after 9/11/2001 I moved out, thinking that I just didn't want to live with people that would not have cared if I had been in one of those buildings that collapsed. Then, I read Marshall's book, and understood that if I had had the skills he talked about, things would have turned out differently. I would never have heard judgment, blame, or criticism, and I could have connected with each person in that family differently. I was hungry to learn NVC and use it, and went to every NVC training I could. I love that Marshall played the guitar, because I was trained as a music therapist and knew the power of music and the arts in bringing connection. When looking for a job, I realized that I was willing to work in a Maximum Security Psych. Hospital because with NVC I knew that I could contribute to healing by bringing connection. During a group one of the participants became extremely angry. After a significant about of empathy, his expression changed and he blurted our, "How come I feel like hugging the world?" During another session, a participant was struggling with voices that were a nightmare to him. He began offering empathy to the voices, understanding their needs. After about a month he announced that he no longer heard voices, but heard music instead. About a year ago, when I left that facility the patients in my groups asked me to please continue sharing NVC with others so that they would not end up locked up in a psych facility like they were. The amazing thing is that now I teach a class in the community college department chaired by the mother of my 5 step kids at her request. Thank you, Marshall, you have offered me and so many others is a new more wonderful life.
lizanatn
I met Marshall for the first time at the last IIT he facilitated in September 2011 after beginning my study of NVC in 2005. The writings of his I had read suddenly came to life for me as this man walked into the room holding a guitar! I felt alive with love in that moment of finally seeing in person a man who had given a lifetime of service to humanity toward listening and expressing from one's heart. Awwww, I remember thinking, "This is a beautiful moment to enjoy and just BE." Over the course of the 9 days, the 60 plus people assembled together from around the world in that beautiful room overlooking the mountain on the Albuquerque terrain, sensed we were witnessing something rare and something precious that may soon end. All my beloved IIT'ers in that room had moments of tenderness watching Marshall be with another human being as they moved into painful histories and be guided with loving gentle presence toward wholeness and transformation. If you've seen Marshall 'become' presence, you know what I mean. As a member of NVC Nashville, I serve my community with a commitment of love toward making a difference in this world by touching compassion and holding a light for others to see it. My teacher is Marshall Rosenberg. I'll forever be too grateful for words to express. Lovingly, carlene robinson
Patrick Schwarz
Unfortunately, I never had the opportunity to experience Marshall Rosenberg myself and I doubt that I will in the future, due to monetary short comings. However, I didn't miss his message! I learned about it first about 4 years ago, when a friend showed me the video of his 3-hour Introduction to NVC. Instantly, I was stunned by the beauty. Until today, it has a very heavy impact on my life. I am currently in a training program to become a psychodynamic oriented psychotherapist and I am already allowed to treat patients. I sometimes deviate from the formal treatment techniques and just take an attitude of empathy and presence in the session to aid the patient to understand himself better. Often, this leads to a very deep connection with the patient with his own inner energy. Sometimes, this is a deep sadness, sometimes it's fear, sometimes its anger and sometimes it's joy. Either way, from time to time I get feedback from my patients. Frequently, they say that they never experienced a deep connection like this, even with other previous therapists with years of experience. I hope that I will still learn much more about NVC and will be able to apply it more in my life. It has enriched it very much already and I see an even more vivid future :)
Joanna Cummings
Here are two of my favorite Marshall stories: Sometimes when I am feeling particularly un-empathic with someone in my life, I remember (and sometimes re-listen to) Marshall's talk on Empathy for Hitler. After I do, I ask myself once again, If Dr. Marshall B. Rosenberg can find empathy for Hitler, do you think you could find just some tiny glimmer of empathy for this person? Once I ask the question that way, my heart starts to open. I first heard Marshall do the Caw Caw song about the crow and singing at a training. At that time, I had a block against singing myself - I hadn't been practicing for years, and I thought I sounded too crappy to be singing in front of other people. It seems weird to even say that now, but it was true for me then. When I heard him sing that song (which was really pretty awful:) but which said that everyone ought to have the right to sing out - it made me laugh out loud at myself, and I started singing again in front of other people. It was completely liberating. Thank you.
Joanna Cummings
OK, one more: I'd heard Marshall talk about the importance of honoring our jackal voice, and I'd heard some brief examples of that. Then I was in one of the trainings I've attended with Marshall, and someone shared a need to vent their beef with our last president, GWB, on their way to finding empathy for him. Marshall talked first about how we needed to let the jackal in us express itself... and then he did. The stream of vitriol that came from his mouth in the next minute or so was truly Jackal-on-Steroids. I nearly bust my gut laughing. And then he breathed, shook it off, and proceeded to move into giraffe. Marshall has taught me by both his example and his passion to speak and live my truth, and through that, to live more fully and frequently in my heart. I strongly believe that I would not be in a wonderful, committed relationship with the love of my life today, and have a respectful (and even fun) relationship with her mother if it were not for the language of Nonviolent Communication. I am deeply and profoundly grateful to Marshall for developing it, for sharing it with all of us, and teaching all of us how to share it with the world. Though I am not certified in NVC, though I share and teach it in many ways as a Lover of it. This is my primary way of supporting the expansion of it... that, and by applying it to the noise in my own head. It is good to be free. Thank you.
Brenda Adams
I first heard NVC as Marshall's voice, listening to his book on tape as I drove to Grand Forks ND in the fall of 2004. It was pitch dark on the flat prairie that October night. A few yard lights were twinkling on the horizon and a few stars visible twinkling through my windshield as I sped along. When he said "We do violence to ourselves or others when we are disconnected from our feelings and needs" I felt like I was hearing the voice of God. In that moment I witnessed life in a whole new way. I was now hurling through time and space - thinking of my mother's recent passing from Alzheimer's, a sister suffering from severe depression and a niece soon to be hospitalized with anorexia. Finally, a new understanding and a route for navigating life on this planet earth. Hope! Beginning my NVC journey changed everything - for me and those I love. Years later I stepped into a metaphysical store. I picked up one book on Egyptology and opened it to the page describing the spiritual work of jackals. I've wondered ever since if Marshall knew how brilliant his choice of jackal is. The god Anubis has a jackal head and is the Lord of Death, the Underworld, who undertakes the weighing of the heart at death. Thanks to you, Marshall, my heart - and many thousands of other hearts - will be much closer to the ostrich feather in weight when we pass. Much love and many blessings to you, my dear, dear heart-opening, illuminating and (en)lightening Teacher! Just this morning I worked with immensely painful feelings. And to be in such grace and gratitude this evening is a miracle and a delight. Journey on, Marshall, in your life-altering spaceship as we all extend our love for you, and with you!! Your beacon will burn bright as long as their is light. I will love you and NVC forever!! Through tears of gratitude and the sweet pain of grief... We carry on together. Each doing our work for the journey...
Marlies Tjallingii
Dear NVC community. I got to know Marshall's work through an article in a Dutch magazine where he talked about Jackal and Giraffe language. I read the article to my husband and my then 16 year old daughter, while riding together in the car. I was very enthusiastic and thought: this is what I want to learn: how to use language for making peace. And how to acknowledge the needs when using accusing language. Then I saw Marshall in a conference in Scheveningen. It was very nice and inspiring to see and hear Marshall for the first time in The Netherlands. After that I did a basic course NVC and followed several other courses. After that I gave a lot of workshops myself, as I am still doing!! I am going to Palestine where I give courses NLP including NVC as a part of the course. So NVC means a lot to me. Thanks Marshall for your lessons.
Sylvie
Dear nvc community, how to describe every time my life was enriched by Marshall's work in less than 40 words? Practice, practice, practice. It is easy but not simple and by putting my but(t) in your face I sing, play and have fun... and in a nutshell: today during a wonderful, connecting conversation with my 19 year old daughter I was touched to tears when she said: "I can live my life to it's full potential because since you discovered nvc you have become aware of what is yours, you can state it clearly and there is room for me to discover what is mine." With love, care and great gratitude to you Marshall as well as to us all who are companions on this compassionate path.
Sarah Bird
In Switzerland in 2005 on your 15 day programme my life turned upside down and rightside up. For the first time in my life I had a way of expressing who I am authentically and with presence. Thank you Marshall you have enriched my life and my relationships with all those in my life, and I am now able to share this with others and enrich their lives too. I have founded the Sarah Bird Foundation (www.sbf.ie) NVC is a cornerstone of the work that the Foundation will do in the world working to heal the suffering and trauma caused by conflict and disaster, fulfilling my own personal need to contribute to creating harmony and peace in the world. I am deeply grateful for this gift.
Amalasiri
i sometimes find myself thinking of Marshall while travelling by train to some of my nvc courses. i remember him and notice a smile shaping my face. at that very moment while i look at the unfolding landscape before my eyes i know that my life is what it is because of him, this man who is thousands of kilometres away is in fact as close as my nose...and then i notice something in my chest, another smile again but this time is shaping my heart, with deep gratitude and joy, amalasiri
Sarah Dawson
Hi Marshall I wanted to express my gratitude to you for the work you have done searching and finding a new way to communicate with one another that you called NVC. I needed change 8 years ago or so as I wanted to be able to communicate with my two daughters in a way that didn't trigger unhappiness and pain in them. The NVC model assisted me in learning new ways of rephrasing my words to say what I wanted to say, from my heart to their hearts. I feel real joy knowing that this learning has transformed our relationships. Specifically learning about what you call "requests" was a transformation for me as I then knew I only ever wanted to request form that moment forward. I only wanted people to do what they did because they chose to. I feel much more ease in communication than i ever felt in my whole life!! I also always loved to hear you singing. It inspires me to have courage and meet my own needs for expression and creativity. I realize I haven't followed formal gratitude process but I wanted to do this soon so i didn't let this opportunity pass. Wishing you ease and rest and many happy days ahead. Sarah
Barbara C Wiebe
Dear, dear Marshall! What a joy in remembering you so very often... as last weekend in hosting the first Alberta NVC Conference held in Calgary, Alberta, Canada, and to share this powerful process of NVC with hungry and receptive participants, to recall and to repeat what "Marshall" says, and to know that you've changed my life, made my life so much more wonderful. My partner, Foster, also in gratitude to you, agrees... Love and gratitude, Barbara xo
Eva Maria Forst
Dear Marshall, from 1999 to 2004 I lived as a german woman in her fifties in Seattle, following the path of my heart, living with my (then) husband Paul. First I was SO resistant against NVC, which was something friends told me to learn, to be more successful in my cross-cultural relationship. Then my husband "dragged" me into that church in Seattle, and I sat in the first row. In front of me a white board with the words I will never forget: "what would make your life more wonderful?" I started crying, sobbing, out of my mind: with all my trainings, growth workshops, love relationships nobody had ever asked me that question. I never asked myself either. I was SO unhappy in my american life, so very different from my life in Berlin, Germany, only to be with my husband who actually was never there, working the american dream.. so, Marshall, from that moment on, and having met you many times after that, and you in all your humble loving way ALWAYS answered my question - which satisfied my need for authenticity -you have completely changed my life. I was able to separate from Paul in a loving way, after years of practicing and then actually teaching NVC, and today I am known between a big bunch of teachers in Berlin as somebody who teaches NVC in the school system, successfully teaches whole schools and still learning with that attitude you taught me: Humbleness. Curiosity. A loving heart. THANK YOU- you changed the world to a better place for me. Eva Maria
Judy Von Bergen
I attended a training of Marshall a year after I became acquainted with this work. He ended the 2nd day by telling of wonderful ways to express gratitude, ways that give many clues to what really was important to you. I got in line and got to the front, book in hand to be signed. When it was my turn Marshall signed my book, and then I said.....well, I kind of froze up and the only thing I said was, "Thank You." Now let me add, this study has enriched my connections with my husband, children now grandchildren. I speak my truth, and realize the importance of honoring and respecting MYSELF, which had always seemed selfish before. I feel as though I am contributing meaningfully in many small ways that are not small at all to the people receiving empathy and compassion. I have studied, taught, and helped organize workshops and classes. This has given purpose to my life. So, once again, a number of years later, I say THANK YOU Marshall.
Ken
I had encountered NVC back in 2004 when Rita Herzog came to Japan. I was her interpreter. In order to prepare for the occasion, I read the "Nonviolent Communication - the Language of Life" for the first time. I was hooked to NVC and wanted to learn. Unfortunately, there were only one training by certified trainer each year. Marshall's books, recordings and video were my sole source of learning for many years. I had learned so much from going over his materials over and over, I reached a point when I had inner Marshall that would give me tips in time of difficulty! As time had passed, I was fortunate enough to have more access to certified trainers but did not have the resource to meet Marshall in person. In 2011, I heard a rumor that Marshall would be retiring soon and the trainers that I had encountered till that point, had strongly encouraged me and supported me and my partner to go see him. It was like a paradise for me to finally see him after 7 years! I had the whole week to express my gratitude and learn directly from the man himself. I went up to him every opportunity I got to share how my life and the life of those close to me got enriched through learning NVC. It was like a dream when I had the opportunity to have an empathy session with him during one of the session. I had watched the video of IIT so many time, and now I was in it!!! Thanks to the language of life that Marshall had created and and thanks to all the trainers who had come to Japan to share this work, there are whole bunch of baby giraffes in Japan, crazy enough to overcome their cultural habit and create a more compassionate world! I am so grateful to Marshall for creating this work that has touched me and many other's lives and also to Valentina for her contribution in supporting Marshall to share this work for the length of time he did. And Kendra at CNVC who enabled me to meet Marshall and make my dream to come true!
Antowi Wibbelink
When I think of you, Marshall, my heart lights up. By attending your IIT in August 2006 (and by following a lot of other NVC courses and festivals) I regained my hope for the future. Thanks for your clear steps, your songs, lightness, your emphatic presence and authenticity. I'm especially grateful for the moment, you represented my mother with giraffe-ears on, when I red the letter to "her" , that I had wished to send her, but never did. It took me 1,5 year before I could write and read her a letter like that, but now without any blaming. It was THE TURNING POINT in our relationship. After that we could express our love towards each other, without the block I felt before! I'm again getting tears in my eyes now that I write this. Thank you Marshall for all the love you brought into the world!
Cathy Hartman
Dear Marshall, Discovering your work has contributed in so many ways to my family and my life. Having the opportunity to have Christa Morf as a Mentor, a true blessing! Attending many IIT's, meeting others, practicing and learning real life skills and then becoming Certified - such growth for me. I have since had a business coaching couples in healthy relationships and am now working with The Tears Foundation - helping support families after the loss of a baby in pregnancy or infancy. I know the value of the work started, learned and practiced with you allows me to be so present and compassionate now with others. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Fred Sly
Dear Marshall, the photo above is of about half the attendees at 2012 graduation from our year-long NVC course at Oregon State Penitentiary; about 80 inmates, staff, and trainers attended. Around 1000 inmates have completed our classes in both California and Oregon prisons since we began offering classes in 2003. In Oregon we now offer classes in four prisons and two post-release programs, and beginning in May of this year we begin training 70 members of the Oregon Department of Corrections in an integrated program that includes NVC, yoga and energetics work, and mindfulness. DOC has indicated a desire for the entire staff of DOC to receive this training over the next 3-5 years. I am enormously grateful that when I began to learn NVC that what I learned was to ever more completely become myself including being pointed toward my life work as well. Fred Sly, Program Director, The Oregon Prison Project and Rose City NVC ps if the photo does not come through I would be glad to send it in a different way
Liv Larsson
Dear Marshall You visit more than 15 years ago to the land of midnight sun - in the north of Sweden made such a change in my life. I have been able to forward the gift many times. At the moment I’m giving it handling the century long conflict between the natives of Scandinavia (the Same) and the forest companies. I’m so grateful to be a link in your work and gift. Remembering your warm hugs Liv
Natalie Zend
Dear Marshall, I am immensely grateful for your work. Since discovering it--initially through Rachelle Lamb in 2004, and later with you and many other great NVC teachers--I have experienced greater depths of connection to myself, to others, to life, to Earth, than I even knew was possible. I have a kind of freedom and equanimity I couldn't have imagined, because I now have the tools to embrace even the most painful feelings. I find myself now even welcoming adversity because I have experienced time and again how--through NVC practice--I end up closer to the flow of life. NVC has helped me live in greater alignment with my values. Decisions, big and small, are easier to take as the alchemical practice of NVC turns my confusion into clarity about the way forward. Your work has been an immeasurable blessing in my life and I just can't thank you enough. with love and in deep gratitude, Natalie
Myra Walden
Dear Marshall, What a joy to have a way to communicate with you and express my deep love and gratitude. Nonviolent Communication has taught me to do God's work on earth -- to aspire to embody and teach unconditional love for all. For a few years now, I have been facilitating weekly groups with Latina immigrants in relationships of violence. NVC is helping them reclaim safety, respect and dignity. I'm also working with mental health professionals in Chicagoland, teaching NVC as the foundation of their therapy work. I think of you all the time with warmth and caring. Eternally grateful, Myra
Kirsten Kristensen
Dear Marshall, when I first met you in 1998 I was a shy and insecure person, finding it difficult to engage in open conversations. I could handle speaking with 1-2 other people at a time. Now thanks to what I learned from you I am giving NVC trainings with more than 100 people and beginning to feel comfortable with it. I feel so much gratitude for how my life have changed and become much more enjoyable and fun. I celebrate the more than 100 days I have spent with you, learning from you, sharing with you. You gave me the sentence: "Work for life, and life works for you." And this has added ease and trust in my times of transition. Thank you. With gratitude Kirsten - Denmark
Susanne Kraft
It was on a IIT in Orchidea Lodge. Marshall was teaching 4 doublehour lessons every day. During lunch break we had taken naps or a walk to recover. When coming back for the afternoon session, we found Marshall saying goodbye to a young man. The way, the two of them looked at each other an tenderly hugged made us guess: is this may be one of his sons?? it looked soo close and familiar with each other. After the young man left, we learned: this was an autistic young man from an institution nearby, which whom Marshall had met during his lunch break and whom he had seen for the first time. This left me deeply touched and i understood something about the power of empathy. Please, Mary, feel free to correct ma english in order to make it easier understandable or more fluent o read. Greetings from Susanne Kraft
Maruschka Boomsma
Dear Marshall, I have never met you in real. And yet your thoughts, ideas, NVC is in my life every day since 2008. It has changed my life, and the way I look at life, and that makes me very happy! Most important what NVC did for me in the first year: I found myself back. After being in a relationship for years with a man with a lot of pain, I had given up on myself, on my feelings and needs. I simple was able to ignore them. And through NVC I got back in touch with myself, and made myself responsible for it, and that has made all the difference! Now I am even sharing NVC with other people, and the miracles that happen there... My heart just fills up with love. Thank you Marshall for sharing NVC with us, it makes me hummble. Big hug!
Paulette Bray-Narai
My gratitude to Marshall and NVC, by Paulette Bray-Narai Certified NVC Trainer, Byron Bay, Australia Nonviolent Communication or Compassionate Communication, came into my life in 2002 and I still marvel with gratitude that it found its way across the seas to a town on the east coast of Australia. I am grateful to Marshall for not only developing the process, also for his vision and commitment in sharing it far and wide. I imagine there were many times when the travel and suitcase lifestyle this necessitated was challenging for Marshall and his family. Amidst my celebration of the gift NVC has been to my life I do wish to acknowledge that for Marshall there would have been hard decisions in his commitment to spreading NVC. There would have been many celebrations in contributing to peace too. I delight in sharing NVC as part of my life work. Contributing to others and seeing it valued and embraced wholeheartedly and gratefully is so enriching. I feel heartened witnessing NVC consciousness grow and spread and my hope and longing for a more compassionate future for humanity seems realizable. I wonder if this is how Marshall felt in his vision and commitment to sharing NVC? In meeting Marshall and learning from him at two IITs, I was impressed with his belief in and commitment to NVC. I had no sense of Marshall himself seeking grandeur; rather he presented a strong authenticity, a genuine longing to contribute to more peace and compassionate connection in the world. I am appreciative that Marshall believed firstly that human beings are compassionate by nature.
Marian & Lane Moore
Dear Marshall - As long-time friends of yours (over 40 years, I think), we want to thank you for "serving our lives!" Lane says his life is richer because of your insights. My life is infinitely richer due to your teachings of nonviolent communication. In fact, since Lane and I have known how to communicate with each other nonviolently (remember the marriage workshop long ago?), our marriage has been much richer. Your insights have been invaluable to me in my work and everyday contacts, and I hope I have been able to enrich the lives of others. What a gift you have given to all of us! We do appreciate it! Our best to you always, Marian and Lane Moore
Kathleen Macferran
Dear Marshall, There's a different quality in each breath I take since the NVC paradigm reframed my world. I wish I could find the words to describe it-- something about more alive and awake, more fluid and full, certainly more grateful and connected to joy. Relief is part of it as well-- a life of greater freedom and authenticity. I'm still in awe at the life this has opened to me. Every day I'm touched by this global NVC community that is co-evolving this vision of yours for a world where the needs of all people are met. I'm inspired by the fierce beauty and passion that sustains this dream. I take this work into prisons, schools, medical facilities, domestic violence facilities, community organizations, churches, shelters, non-profit organizations, businesses...........and can't believe I get to do this with my life. My intention is to do my part to take this to all parts of the world as you have done. Wishing I could sing you "Leader of the Band" one more time.........especially the line, "the leader of the band is tired and his eyes are growing old, but his blood runs through my instrument and his song is in my soul." Deep bows of gratitude to you and all those in your life who have made it possible for you to touch mine. I'm celebrating how your legacy lives on in the hearts of so many around the world. Sending you love and joy, Kathleen Macferran
Ian Thomas
Dr. Rosenberg, I was introduced to your book, The Surprise Purpose of Anger in a Restorative Practices Class in Lansdale, PA with IIRP. Since then, I read Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life and have been freely distributing it to as many people as I believe will read it. Your training course CDs and NVC as a whole has helped increase peace in my life in numerous ways, mainly by giving me a clear, direct action that I can perform while being mindful. I feel beyond elated when I think of your contribution to peace in my life and my ability to help bring peace to others. Your philosophy has helped me worth through the death of my brother, helping me handle difficult thoughts relating to his fiancée, help some college students and massage clients connect with their feelings and needs, connect more strongly with my father, etc. My needs for empathy, understanding, clarity, compassion and many more are met. I request that you bring this gratitude within and feel the positive energy from it surge throughout your being. I hope is that NVC will touch ground in the United States with in-person empathy centers to reach a greater community on a more personal level rather than only over the phone or limited workshops. I have contacted puddledancer to create a palmcard for hand-to-hand distribution to expand the knowledge of NVC. I feel very excited and have a need to increase peace on the planet. With Great Gratitude, Ian Thomas
Susan Wildin
Marshall, I first "met" you through the books and CD's you made. In September of 2010, I had the privilege of attending an IIT with you. I enjoyed the way you had of sharing with us, your storytelling and your songs. The biggest impact came from your presence. In a room of 60 people, it felt like you were there with each of us. I felt your humanity and caring in every word, look and gesture. Through this experience I had a deep sense of the "oneness" of all humanity. In learning and integrating NVC, my life was transformed and I have been living with love, purpose and passion since then. I'm forever grateful for the learning and transformation your work and your presence have brought me.
Paul Hagen
MARSHALL..... Introduced me to listening in such a unique way I enjoy listening...like never before THANK YOU MARSHALL life can be easy...........and fun.
Empathy is a respectful understanding of what others are experiencing.