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For us to open the door to seemlingly impossible societal changes, we need to find and transform enemy images in order to influence and collaborate with those who seem to be standing in our way. Here's an anecdote to show that this is what lead to Martin Luther King Jr's success in creating social change.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 3 - 5 minutes
  • Date Added 01/2011
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  • Payee Eddie Zacapa
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If we befriend our fear we cannot be paralyzed by it. Every fear that arises is a moment to increase our capacity. Fear is connected to something that is precious to us. We also can see what we do to numb our pain and how we try to avoid it. This knowledge can help us to choose healthier strategies to deal with our fears.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 3 - 5 minutes
  • Date Added 05/2014
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  • Payee Eddie Zacapa
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In pandemic many are asked to stay home. If we are experiencing violence at home we're also most at risk of harm or death if we leave. There are also less visible pieces at work. In this situation, acknowledging our pain, needs and experience can lighten the internal load to meet what is real, and claim our truth. We can do the same for our kids. This can open more pathways forward, and provide strength to leave when its more viable.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 6 - 9 minutes
  • Date Added 07/2020
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  • Payee Eddie Zacapa
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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This sheet lists and describes 13 life serving strategies, such as: Time out, disengage, honesty check, and engaging in a working recovery plan. Read on for more.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 2-3 minutes
  • Date Added 1/2015
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  • Payee Eddie Zacapa
  • Points 1
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Praise may disconnect us from our own confidence, intrinsic motivation, or discernment. It may lead to perfectionism, people pleasing, codependency, a tendency to criticize others or fix others, and more. Instead, without evaluative words we can sincerely share what we specifically liked about what they did, and what needs were met for us.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 4 - 6 minutes
  • Date Added 10/09/2021
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  • Payee Eddie Zacapa
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Codependency occurs when others' behavior affects us in unhealthy ways and we get obsessed with controlling their behavior. For example, we may focus on other's needs while neglect what matters to us, and resent it. Or we may depend on others to rescue us from results of our actions. Or we may fix or rescue others' neglected responsibilities. Or we may make others responsible for our needs. Instead, notice your needs, what you can('t) change, and your priorities.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 5 - 7 minutes
  • Date Added 11/7/2022
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  • Payee Eddie Zacapa
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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  • Celebrate and nurture your relationship to the Earth — and each other! 
  • Explore your connections to family, partner, work, nature, self and more 
  • Discover new ways to grow in community and work together to make this world a better place  
  • Engage and immerse yourself in NVC while making new friends! 

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  • Media Type MP4 Video Download
  • Sessions 20 Sessions
  • Duration 40 hours
  • Date Recorded Recorded in 2021
  • Additional Materials PDF Handouts Included
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This trainer tip suggests ways to transform blame in to personal power. He suggests having multiple sources of support and multiple pathways to achieving the outcome you want, to allow more room to hear a "no". Read on for more.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Levels
  • Duration 3 - 5 minutes
  • Date Added 01/2011
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  • Payee Eddie Zacapa
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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When an entity or system has authority or power and mandates something we don't agree with we may submit or to rebel. If we submit, we give in or give up, often out of fear. If we rebel, we're in reactivity which may not help our cause, and reduce our power. This may result in others' resentment, anger, and pain. Gandhi and Martin Luther King didn't submit nor rebel. Instead, they were in choice and advocated for their cause.

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  • Skill Level Introductory Skill Level
  • Duration 1 -2 minutes
  • Date Added 1/29/2022
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  • Payee Eddie Zacapa
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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