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Facilitating Connection

Audio • 59 minutes • 04/28/2010
Beginner Skill Level
Audio
59 minutes
04/28/2010

Expressing ourselves honestly is sometimes scary because we can't predict where the conversation will go after we've made ourselves vulnerable. This recording will demonstrate how the power of our honesty is enhanced by ending on a clear and present request.


Meeting Our Needs

Trainer Tip • 1 - 2 minutes • 10/2005
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
10/2005

Trainer Tip: Discovering the unmet needs is only a starting point. The other part is to understand what it will take to meet that need, and make a request that will accomplish this. This way, we can resolve situations before they escalate. Everyone benefits when we are clear about what we would like.


Consciousness, NVC, and Navigating Inner and Outer Conflicts

Audio • 35 minutes • 08/08/2015
Beginner Skill Level
Audio
35 minutes
08/08/2015

Listen to John talk about the inner and outer mediation process, the importance of the "3rd chair," and an experience of working with Pakistani elders.


Developing Your Tracking Skills (Part 1)

Video • 6 minutes • 05/26/2014
Intermediate Skill Level
Video
6 minutes
05/26/2014

Mary offers tips for developing effective tracking skills, including how the energy of the group is managed discerning the qualities of presence for each of the members, and monitoring group participation while striving for a balance of inclusion.


Overcoming Patriarchy 5-7-2017

Audio • 1 hour, 12 minutes • 05/07/2017
Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
1 hour, 12 minutes
05/07/2017

The focus on patriarchy emerges from the understanding that patriarchy plays a foundational role in everything. Yes, I mean it: everything. Patriarchy is not the same as sexism; patriarchy is to sexism very much what structural racism is to (interpersonal) racism: it's a system that runs independently of any one person's attitudes or behaviors. Join Miki for her first in a series of discussions on patriarchy.


Improving Relationships as a Primary Goal

Trainer Tip • 1 - 2 minutes • 01/04/2005
Beginner Skill Level
Trainer Tip
1 - 2 minutes
01/04/2005

Trainer Tip: We can improve our relationships by focusing our attention first on connection instead of other stragegies.


The Transforming Power of Authenticity

Audio • 59 minutes • 06/25/2016
Beginner Skill Level
Audio
59 minutes
06/25/2016

Jori and Jim Manske offer writing practices to help us become more firmly grounded in the authorship of our lives. That grounding helps us share ourselves with others more authentically and vulnerably(scary honesty)


Life Serving Strategies

Article • 2-3 minutes • 1/2015
Beginner Skill Level
Article
2-3 minutes
1/2015

This sheet lists and describes 13 life serving strategies, such as: Time out, disengage, honesty check, and engaging in a working recovery plan. Read on for more.


Unpacking Observations

Article • 4 - 6 minutes • 11/20/2022
All Skill Levels
Article
4 - 6 minutes
11/20/2022

Many people consider a true observation as something that all can agree on. Some people use the video camera analogy – a true observation is “what a video camera can see and hear.” This perpetuates the myth of the neutral, unbiased observer. There are three layers of observation: External, Internal, and Systemic. Understanding these layers is key to connecting with the depth of the needs, and to create greater shared understanding.


Requests in a Moment of Reactivity

Article • 3-5 minutes • 05/2019
Beginner Skill Level
Article
3-5 minutes
05/2019

Here are 16 helpful requests you can make before you're swept up in your own reactivity.


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