Can NVC Be Taught Without Using OFNR?
Video
2 minutes
CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan explains has developed a path to teaching NVC without relying on OFNR: Principle-based Teaching.
Contextualizing the NVC Process
Video
4 minutes
CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan explains how NVC's OFNR process is a tool to train our consciousness, rather than the "correct" way to speak.
I Don't Know Whether to Express Myself or Offer Empathy
I Don't Know Whether to Express Myself or Offer Empathy
I Don't Know Whether to Express Myself or Offer Empathy
Video
5 minutes
CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan discusses how focusing on connection and care can guide us in expressing honestly and offering empathy.
You Sound Like a Therapist!
Video
6 minutes
CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan explains how using OFNR or "Classic NVC" is for practice, not real life situations.
Unappreciated is NOT a Feeling
Video
2 minutes
Unappreciated, Judged, Disrespected, Offended, Manipulated ... people use these words to describe feelings but these are all words that describe interpretations instead. They're also words that get people's backs up. Talk about unproductive! The solution? Develop a vocabulary of feelings so you can minimize defensiveness in others and facilitate connection.
Managing Collectively: New, Empowered Ways to Get Things Done
Managing Collectively: New, Empowered Ways to Get Things Done
Managing Collectively: New, Empowered Ways to Get Things Done
Audio
1 hour, 8 minutes
Enjoy Dian's overview of the 4-step model and its application to the workplace. Learn how NVC can help you: generate intrinsic motivation… discover creative solutions… create greater accountability and buy-in…reinforce behaviors you like and change others… and experience a LOT more fun, joy and aliveness at work!
The Tao of Empathy
Video
9 minutes
John introduces his Self-Connection Exercise as a mindful way of coming to awareness via OFNR. Breath: immediately observable, a reminder to observe. Body: feeling the body, awareness of sensations. Needs: an experience of wholeness that expands awareness of the totality of experience. Listen.
Differentiating Between Feelings And Faux Feelings
Differentiating Between Feelings And Faux Feelings
Differentiating Between Feelings And Faux Feelings
Learning Tool
N/A
This chart is intended as an aid to translating words that are often confused with feelings. These words imply that someone is doing something to you and generally connote wrongness or blame. To use this list, when somebody says “I’m feeling rejected,” you might translate this as: “Are you feeling scared because you have a need for inclusion?”
Key Facts About Nonviolent Communication (NVC)
Article
7 pages
Learn how Nonviolent Communication (NVC) can improve the quality of your personal and professional relationships, one interaction at a time.
A List of Feelings We All Have (Emotions and Sensations)
A List of Feelings We All Have (Emotions and Sensations)
A List of Feelings We All Have (Emotions and Sensations)
Learning Tool
30 minutes
The following list of words are used to express a combination of emotional states and physical sensations. This list is neither exhaustive nor definitive. It is meant as a starting place to help you develop your emotional vocabulary and further support your communication with others.