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Trainer Tip: You may find yourself assessing the relationship with someone just based on how they feel. Check in with yourself: How do you feel and what needs of yours are met when you spend time with someone? Consider whether this relationship is working for you. If it isn’t, be specific about which of your needs are unmet. Notice if you can do anything to help meet them.
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Wednesdays and Fridays, December 20-29, 2023 (four sessions)
9:30am-12:30pm Pacific (California) Time
Online via Zoom
The live course is complete. You can register to receive access to the recorded sessions.
Registration Fee for Individuals: $330
NVC Library Members: $264*
Registration Fee for Partners (includes 25% discount for the second person): $577
NVC Library Members: $462*
*NVC Library members get 20% off their registration fee using code NVCL at time of checkout
Registering as a pair? Read our FAQs.
The live course is complete. You can register to receive access to the recorded sessions
When you register, you will receive an email with complete instructions on how to access your course.
Note that course recordings display images of active speakers only, and are made available to all registrants.
Fridays, February 3 - December 8, 2023 (45 sessions)
12:00 - 2:00pm Pacific (California) Time
This live course is complete. You can register to receive access to the recorded sessions or register for Responding to the Call of Our Times 2024.
First Session - Free!
There is no set amount for this course. Though we offer below guidance to people in choosing how much to give, it is intended as support for you, not as specific requests. We invite people to register using a gift economy approach so that everyone can have access and our work can also be sustainable. We ask that you give the most that you can do without overstretching or resentment. You can learn more about our thinking and about choosing your amount here.
This live course is complete. You can register to receive access to the recorded sessions or register for Responding to the Call of Our Times 2024.
When you register, you will receive an email with complete instructions on how to access your course.
Note that course recordings display images of active speakers only, and are made available to all registrants.
First Session - Free!
Mondays, March 6-13, 2023 (two sessions)
4:00-6:00pm Pacific (California) Time
Registration fee: $97
NVC Library Members: $78
Enter coupon code NVCL at time of checkout.
Dates and times are adjusted to your location. You can select a different time zone at the bottom of the list.
When you register, you will receive an email with complete instructions on how to access your course.
Note that course recordings display images of active speakers only, and are made available to all registrants.
Price: $97
Trainer Tip: When we match might with might, we create discord, frustration, and separation from other people. Instead, place aside your urge to be right or to win. Approach charged situations with a sincere desire to be honest, and to value everyone’s needs including your own. The way you show up is a valuable asset. You may not get what you asked for but you can increase your chances of meeting your needs for integrity, and more.
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Trainer Tip: When you make a request of someone, you don't diminish your relationship; you enhance it. If you receive a "no" to your request, consider brainstorming a different strategy that would meet your needs. It isn’t a sign of weakness to clarify what you would like. It helps you commit to living a full and joyful life. Look for opportunities to clarify your requests.
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Trainer Tip: We all have different ways to meet our need for rest. It's important to notice when you need that time. You might know you need rest when you find yourself snapping at people on the phone, when you snap at your cat, or when you ignore your partner. Rather than behave in ways that you might regret, consider doing something that will help you meet your need for rest. Everyone in your life will benefit.
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Trainer Tip: Make a clear, conscious decision about what’s important to you, and then live from that place. This can support you to become less attached to being likeable or accepted, And less affected in a way you don't want, by others opinions of you and your choices. This can further support you to live in integrity.
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Trainer Tip: When faced with doing a task that doesn't seem fun try saying to yourself something to the effect of “I do this activity because I value...”. Complete the sentence with related needs, then ask yourself if you still want to complete the task. This can take the demand out of the tasks. Next, choose accordingly. This can teach you about, or give you more access to, true choice in life.
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