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Ask the Trainer: How do I respond to people who believe that consequences are necessary to change behavior?

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 7 minutes
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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Ask the Trainer: Can all needs be met when illness limits the capacity of one person to meet the needs of her partner?

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 7 minutes
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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Ask the Trainer: I feel overwhelmed thinking of writing to someone with cancer. What can I do?

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 6 minutes
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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Ask the Trainer: Can you help me connect with my needs behind the protective use of force I use with my children?

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 9 minutes
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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Ask the Trainer: "I feel a lot of fear or nervousness about approaching a neighbor who uses 'wastebasket talk.' Once she's engaged, there are only two techniques that interrupt the flow: leaving or interrupting."

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 3 - 5 minutes
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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Ask the Trainer: "I understand that I'm not responsible for someone else's feelings, but my girlfriend doesn't. Do you have ideas for how I could get her to understand this concept?"

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 2-3 minutes
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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Ask the Trainer: "What guidance do you have for working with enemy images? Can you say some things about processes and/or exercises that can bring relief from this trap?"

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration N/A
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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Ask the Trainer: "At one point in my practice, it was brought to my attention that some people find the use of 'formal NVC' off-putting, or mechanical. Do you have any input or insight into this?"

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 3 - 5 minutes
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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John Cunningham provides support to deepen your understanding and practice of NVC, including a sketch of the participatory and onlooker modes of consciousness, lists of feelings, needs and sample dialogues.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 20 - 25 minutes
  • Production Date 2005
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  • Points 2
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In this brief audio, Jim Manske uses a live situation to demonstrate how to use the NVC process in an apology. Jim starts by identifying the four steps to self-connection before expressing your apology.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 8 minutes
  • Production Date Circa 2007
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  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1