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Subtle boundary violations are more difficult to catch and name in the moment, than obvious boundary violations. Becoming more aware of these moments and finding the words to set a boundary are critical to supporting healthy relating long-term. Three categories of subtle boundary violations are (1.) lack of mutuality, (2.) voice tone and volume, and (3.) speaking for or about someone. Read on to learn more about all three.

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  • Skill Level Applied NVC
  • Duration Read time: 7-11 minutes
  • Production Date 12/2017
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 6
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles
What's the real reason you choose to talk about something or not? "Privacy" can become a misplaced label that's used to hide harmful behaviour. Secrets typically come from reactivity -- and can carry shame, fear or threat of harm, and take a toll. And yet, if something private gets mislabeled as a "secret" it can also trigger shame and fear. The key to all this may be in relating to privacy from a place of clear differentiation, boundaries, agency, care and discernment.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration Read time: 3 - 5 minutes
  • Production Date 9/2018
  • Premium Members N/A
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
Published in Articles
 
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