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NVC Resources with John Kinyon

Parenting and Anger: Walking the Ultimate Path to Peace (5 Session Course)

Parenting and Anger: Walking the Ultimate Path to Peace (5 Session Course)

Parenting and Anger: Walking the Ultimate Path to Peace (5 Session Course)

with John Kinyon and Stephanie Bachmann Mattei

Audio • 6 - 8 hours

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
6 - 8 hours

John and Stephanie combine mediating conflict, parenting and study of brain science to this ground-breaking course recording on how to funnel your anger and your child’s anger toward mutual caring and peace. The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy. nvctraining.com

Mediating Conflict Conversations with Observation, Feeling, Need, and Request

Mediating Conflict Conversations with Observation, Feeling, Need, and Request

Mediating Conflict Conversations with Observation, Feeling, Need, and Request

with John Kinyon

Audio • 44 minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
44 minutes

Mediating a conflict conversation can be challenging – but with tools and practice, that challenge can be transformed. If you're curious about the specific steps needed to achieve that transformation, join John for an exploration of his non-dual mindfulness practice.

Healing and Reconciliation (7 Session Course)

Healing and Reconciliation (7 Session Course)

Healing and Reconciliation (7 Session Course)

with Ike Lasater and John Kinyon

Audio • 7 - 9 hours

Beginner Skill Level
Audio
7 - 9 hours

Old emotional hurts and pains can easily erupt when you’re in the throes of conflict – even if you’re the mediator. Wouldn’t it be lovely if you could avoid all of that, and instead create more peace and happiness for yourself, your family, your co-workers and your community? The introductory session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy:

Connecting When Worldviews Conflict (4 Session Course)

Connecting When Worldviews Conflict (4 Session Course)

Connecting When Worldviews Conflict (4 Session Course)

with John Kinyon and Matthew Rich

Audio • 6 hours

Advanced Skill Level
Audio
6 hours

John Kinyon and Matthew Rich examine the ways in which people’s worldviews can be different and why this often creates conflict. The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy.

The Tao of Empathy: Practicing the Presence of Empathy and Four Elements of Empathic Connection

The Tao of Empathy: Practicing the Presence of Empathy and Four Elements of Empathic Connection

The Tao of Empathy: Practicing the Presence of Empathy and Four Elements of Empathic Connection

with John Kinyon

Audio • 2 hours, 10 minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
2 hours, 10 minutes

In this recorded telecourse, John Kinyon, world renowned CNVC Certified Trainer, offers an overview and practice with four elements of empathy – presence, understanding/meaning, need language and deepening into needs.

NVC Mediation Level 1 Training: Mediating Conflict for Yourself and Others (8 Session Course)

NVC Mediation Level 1 Training: Mediating Conflict for Yourself and Others (8 Session Course)

NVC Mediation Level 1 Training: Mediating Conflict for Yourself and Others (8 Session Course)

with John Kinyon

Audio • 11 - 14 hours

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
11 - 14 hours

This telecourse recording provides an experience with the language, skills and consciousness of NVC applied to mediating all types of conflict whether you are one of the people in conflict or you are supporting others in conflict. The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy.

NVC as Spiritual Practice: Transcendence, Transformation & Self (4 Session Course)

NVC as Spiritual Practice: Transcendence, Transformation & Self (4 Session Course)

NVC as Spiritual Practice: Transcendence, Transformation & Self (4 Session Course)

with John Kinyon and Newt Bailey

Audio • 6 - 8 hours

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
6 - 8 hours

This 4 session telecourse recording offers practices while exploring the relationship between the core elements of NVC and universal spiritual principles. The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy.

Bringing Peace to Kids in Conflict (6 Session Course)

Bringing Peace to Kids in Conflict (6 Session Course)

Bringing Peace to Kids in Conflict (6 Session Course)

with John Kinyon and Stephanie Bachmann Mattei

Audio • 9 -12 hours

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
9 -12 hours

This 6-session telecourse recording focuses on supporting people who work with children (e.g. parents, teachers, ministers, etc.) in applying the skills of NVC mediation in conflict situations that involve children. The first session of this course is available for all to listen to and enjoy.

Change Your Response to Conflict — Change Your Life (4 Session Course)

Change Your Response to Conflict — Change Your Life (4 Session Course)

Change Your Response to Conflict — Change Your Life (4 Session Course)

with Ike Lasater and John Kinyon

Audio • 5 hours, 12 minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
5 hours, 12 minutes

Listen to this introductory 4-session Mediate Your Life telecourse recording to change your response to conflict and change your life.

Mediate Your Life: Chooser Educator Map

Mediate Your Life: Chooser Educator Map

Mediate Your Life: Chooser Educator Map

with Ike Lasater and John Kinyon

Audio • 12 minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
12 minutes

When you have intrusive thoughts about yourself and feel ‘crummy,’ Ike recommends using the Chooser / Educator map as a guide to lead you out of the primitive part of your brain and back to your prefrontal cortex. Both the Chooser and the Educator want to contribute to your well being, but in different ways. This map facilitates having a positive conversation with them.

Consciousness, NVC, and Navigating Inner and Outer Conflicts

Consciousness, NVC, and Navigating Inner and Outer Conflicts

Consciousness, NVC, and Navigating Inner and Outer Conflicts

with John Kinyon

Audio • 35 minutes

Beginner Skill Level
Audio
35 minutes

Listen to John talk about the inner and outer mediation process, the importance of the "3rd chair," and an experience of working with Pakistani elders.

Mediate Your Life: Resolving Internal Conflicts (Part 5)

Mediate Your Life: Resolving Internal Conflicts (Part 5)

Mediate Your Life: Resolving Internal Conflicts (Part 5)

with Ike Lasater and John Kinyon

Audio • 1 hour, 19 minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
1 hour, 19 minutes

If you wish you could stay more centered and present in the face of difficult or demanding situations, this course will provide some powerful tools for you. In this session, join John and Ike as they review the Chooser-Educator Process (C-E) and demonstrate the "Barriers in the Chairs" process to help you get beyond the obstacles that keep you from your goals.

Transforming Anger: The Enemy Image Process and Learning/Growth Spiral

Transforming Anger: The Enemy Image Process and Learning/Growth Spiral

Transforming Anger: The Enemy Image Process and Learning/Growth Spiral

with John Kinyon

Audio • 1 hour, 11 minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
1 hour, 11 minutes

Transforming anger is a key practice for returning to conscious presence and connection with self and others when triggered into a reaction. Join John Kinyon to learn this essential life skill through the Enemy Image Process and Learning/Growth Spiral.

Expressing and Receiving “No” in NVC Consciousness

Expressing and Receiving “No” in NVC Consciousness

Expressing and Receiving “No” in NVC Consciousness

with John Kinyon

Audio • 1 hour, 21 minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
1 hour, 21 minutes

How we deal with “no” is a litmus test of our state of consciousness around power. Listen as John works with participants as they learn to give and receive a "no" from a consciousness of interpersonal connection.

Valuing My Needs When I Habitually Don't

Valuing My Needs When I Habitually Don't

Valuing My Needs When I Habitually Don't

with John Kinyon

Audio • 9 minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
9 minutes

Listen to John answer an NVC Library member's question about what we can do when we habitually place other's needs ahead our own. Healing and change can be reached through compassionate self-connection, needs awareness, mourning and mindfulness.

Inner Maps of Conflict

Inner Maps of Conflict

Inner Maps of Conflict

with John Kinyon

Audio • 9 minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
9 minutes

In this brief audio segment, John Kinyon offers a guided tour of our inner maps of conflict, including interpersonal mediation, chooser/educator, enemy images and making amends maps.

Introduction to NVC Mediation: Conceptual Overview and Experiential Learning and Practice

Introduction to NVC Mediation: Conceptual Overview and Experiential Learning and Practice

Introduction to NVC Mediation: Conceptual Overview and Experiential Learning and Practice

with John Kinyon

Audio • 1 hour, 13 minutes

Beginner Skill Level
Audio
1 hour, 13 minutes

This Introduction to NVC Mediation provides a conceptual overview and experiential taste of the NVC mediation learning model developed by John Kinyon and Ike Lasater.

Reconciliation & Healing of Interpersonal Pain: Working with Marshall Rosenberg’s Four Part Process

Reconciliation & Healing of Interpersonal Pain: Working with Marshall Rosenberg’s Four Part Process

Reconciliation & Healing of Interpersonal Pain: Working with Marshall Rosenberg’s Four Part Process

with John Kinyon

Audio • 2 hours, 5 minutes

Beginner Skill Level
Audio
2 hours, 5 minutes

Experience John Kinyon's application of NVC Founder Marshall Rosenberg's 4-part model of reconciliation and healing, a model he developed over the course of decades of work with people around the world who have experienced the deep pain of violence.

Foundational NVC Skills: Requests

Foundational NVC Skills: Requests

Foundational NVC Skills: Requests

with John Kinyon

Audio • 1 hour, 25 minutes

Beginner Skill Level
Audio
1 hour, 25 minutes

Marshall Rosenberg suggests that there are two requests that are the most transformative to relationships, (1) What’s alive in both of us? and (2) What would make life more wonderful for both of us? This telecourse recording offers an easy-to-digest overview of how carefully crafted requests inspire joyful relationships.

Observation: The Awareness of the Thoughts, Stories and Core Beliefs to Enhance Connection

Observation: The Awareness of the Thoughts, Stories and Core Beliefs to Enhance Connection

Observation: The Awareness of the Thoughts, Stories and Core Beliefs to Enhance Connection

with John Kinyon

Audio • 2 hours, 10 minutes

Intermediate Skill Level
Audio
2 hours, 10 minutes

In this recorded telecourse, John Kinyon, world renowned CNVC Certified Trainer, guides you through processes to strengthen your capacity for mindful presence and awareness of your thinking, and to develop the skills to translate thoughts into observations.

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