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Sitting with not knowing is an NVC skill because its the opposite of reactivity. In our haste to find relief from the discomfort of not knowing, we often become defensive, jump to conclusions, and blame and criticize others. Sitting with not knowing requires us to suspend our distrust, tolerate fear and uncertainty - creating space within us. NVC provides a way forward to enter into a space of wonder, possibility, and creativity.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 3 - 5 minutes
  • Production Date 7/2017
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  • Payee Work Collaboratively
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Love keeps the thread of connection intact in times when all around us we see the human fabric becoming threadbare. When we dig deep with love into guessing what others care about that had given rise to their actions, it changes us. It brings us closer to understanding the incomprehensible -- and closer to vision, imagination, humility, curiosity, commonality, and loving action. Read on for more on applying this to people we deem "conspiracy theorists", and those who are on the other end of the political divide.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 7 - 11 minutes
  • Production Date 11/2020
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  • Payee BayNVC
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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For the ultimate romance to unfold, as an expression of your care for how your words and actions affect others, prioritize digging into your inner work before addressing conflict with them.  This means doing the inner work necessary to get to the root of the issue, which can bring bigger shifts, more aliveness, love, creativity, inspiration and compassion.  This doesn't mean letting the other person get away with unhealthy behaviour.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 6 - 9 minutes
  • Production Date 01/2018
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  • Payee Eric Bowers
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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Working for racial justice is a shift in perspective—a shift in understanding and empathy that leads to a change in our actions: to listen instead of talk, to follow instead of lead, to yield rather than dominate. And to accept that I will continue to mess up. Part of working to undo racism is having the humility to know when our own understanding is limited. Read on for more this, and how it relates to meditation -- plus personal and collective liberation.

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 5 - 8 minutes
  • Production Date 06/2020
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  • Payee Oren Jay Sofer
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
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