Library Resources with interpretation
We can choose our stories of interpretation, and how to respond. And while stories of self-sufficiency can (to a degree) give us more influence over our own lives, they don't erase oppression, war, nor climate change. When stories omit a lens that includes impacts of interdependence, oppression, and structural inequities, stories can also keep us disconnected and blocked from compassion for self and others -- and perpetuating an oppressive status quo. However, with this lens we can make greater compassion and collective liberation possible. Even as the outcome is unknown.
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- Skill Level All Skill Levels
- Duration 16 - 24 minutes
- Date Added 05/2019
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Premium Members
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- Payee NGL
- Points 5
- Multi Trainer Num 1
- Introductory Skill Level
- marginalization
- oppression
- NVC pitfalls
- Beginner Skill Level
- Intermediate Skill Level
- Miki Kashtan
- society
- Advanced Skill Level
- systemic change
- social change
- Etty Hillesum
- nonviolence
- choice
- power
- status quo
- liberation
- stimulus vs cause
- responsibility
- blame
- interpretation
- self sufficiency
- interdependence
- NVC & Society
When you or anyone is upset, what could underneath the trigger? There may be more than is immediately visible. This article invites us to explore what it looks like to inquire deeper, take self-responsibility, examine our assumptions, attachments, interpretations, and "certainties" that could be hidden behind the needs that are aching to be attended to...
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- Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
- Duration 7-10 minutes
- Date Added 10/2017
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- Payee Mary Mackenzie
- Points 3
- Multi Trainer Num 1
- Mary Mackenzie
- triggers
- blame
- reactivity
- fighting
- disrespect
- self talk
- interpretation
- assumptions
- anger
- argument
- self connection
- yelling
- resentment
- responsibility
- unmet needs
- thoughts
- jackal thinking
- stimulus
- stimulus vs cause
- fault
- Beginner Skill Level
- Intermediate Skill Level
- upset
- self inquiry
- self righteous anger
- intense emotions
- enemy images
- frustration
- attachment
- demands
- judgment
Society gives us short-sighted explanations about human nature, life and what’s (un)changeable. The coronavirus pandemic is disrupting that explanation. Our current social order upholds impoverishment, police brutality, and is leading us towards our extinction. Change begins with people mobilizing resources towards a vision that holds systemic care for all, plus engages shared risk and collective action towards that vision.
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- Skill Level All Skill Levels
- Duration 23 - 34 minutes
- Date Added 07/2020
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Premium Members
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- Payee NGL
- Points 7
- Multi Trainer Num 1
When someone expresses upset about our actions, and we focus on our intention being seen and understood (e.g. "I didn’t mean to hurt you”) it doesn't support the speaker in being heard more deeply with care. Here we'll explore this dynamic in a way that supports more clarity and the possibility of greater personal liberation. Read on for more.
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- Skill Level Advanced Skill Level
- Duration 12 - 18 minutes
- Date Added 08/2013
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Premium Members
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- Payee NGL
- Points 4
- Multi Trainer Num 1
- Beginner Skill Level
- Intermediate Skill Level
- Miki Kashtan
- Advanced Skill Level
- intention
- effect
- impact
- privilege
- listening
- race
- white fragility
- BIPOC
- conflict
- privilege blindness
- understanding
- being seen
- self acceptance
- interdependence
- interpretation
- stimulus
- cause
- attention
- NVC & Society
- defensive
Please join us as we remember the work and life of Inbal Kashtan. She offered this parenting Q&A session in NVC Academy's 2013 Parenting Conference.
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- Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
- Duration 1 hour, 4 minutes
- Date Added 01/14/2013
- Premium Members Premium Members
- Payee Kathy Simon
- Points 3
- Multi Trainer Num 1
In this brief audio snippet, CNVC Certified Trainer and founder of the CNVC Parenting Project, Inbal Kashtan, explores observation in contrast to interpretation, and leads an exercise in observation skills.
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- Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
- Duration 7 minutes
- Date Added 2004
- Premium Members Premium Members
- Payee Kathy Simon
- Points 1
- Multi Trainer Num 1
In this book excerpt, Kathleen and Jared offer a path to reach deeper clarity, distinguishing between revealing ourselves and projection.
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- Skill Level All Skill Levels
- Duration 10 - 15 minutes
- Date Added 10/15/2020
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- Payee Jared Finkelstein, Kathleen Macferran
- Points 2
- Multi Trainer Num 1
In this brief introduction to The Work from Byron Katie, Arnina shows the connection of The Work to Nonviolent Communication. Arnina points out how the first two questions of The Work correspond to the observation step of the NVC process, and invites us into deeper self-inquiry.
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- Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
- Duration 8 minutes
- Date Added 9/5/2021
- Premium Members Premium Members
- Payee Arnina Kashtan
- Points 1
- Multi Trainer Num 1